Virgins. Curious. Perverts.

i think people who call other people perverted are just subconsciously jealous that the 'perverted' ones have enough courage to talk about and try things that interest them that are outside the 'norm'

Maybe yes, maybe no. That was what psychology says. Just read it on my timeline. So maybe i subconsciously applied it my self because i was "curious".

Maybe I just think differently than most people, but I have always lived by the philosophy that if you enjoy it, if no one gets hurt more than they want to and if everything is consensual then there is nothing wrong with anything. I personally think that too many times people go by what 'society' thinks and don't stop and evaluate for themselves what they think is ok and is not ok. Just my opinion, not trying to judge anyone.

But then again, I'm into the harder stuff anyway! LOL

unfortunately the word moral is easily used to judge others, their way of thinking, and their freedom

Exactly!!!!! The whole mentality of "You don't think, act, or talk the way I do (don't have the same morals...)therefore you are wrong." I try to avoid those kinds of people, so I'm basically a loner! lol. It's a way to avoid thinking for themselves, they just go with the flow of what 'everyone else' is thinking. Kinda sad

i agree and it's boring
as long you are condifent and don't what others think you will eat the world

Oh my god. Really when I read this I realize that I've done something wrong to my sister:( she had a problem with her friend and I just blame her cause she thinks different"-_- thank you guys for this reminder. I will apologize right after my sister wake up

aw... glad our out of the blue discussion helped you out. hope everything works out

Yeah, you have to draw the line between being socially polite (not embarrassing people talking about your kinks) and being true to your self. But you are 100% right. Self confidence and being true to yourself will put you on top of the world no matter what your goals are.

yeah that's true you don't have to tell everything but it doesn't mean that that you are ashmed

We arent talking whose the one who is jealously perverted here. What I want to point out here is, virgins are very curious because they dont have experience. they always wonder "How it feels, how to do, does it.... and how should etc." There are also virgins who dont care what other think about them voicing thier curiousness about this topic. So its cool

well, i can say i dont care how people think on how i manage my everyday life. Some people think im weird and i was like i dont care. My life, i owned it so whatever i do doesnt mean a shit on them. btw, im basically a loner too, doesnt have enough friends who understand my weird personality, but im cool, i still have 1 or 2 friends sticking whit me. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

there is a saying :true friends can be counted by the fingers of the hand (difficult to say it in english)

Yeah, i'm a curious one too and I'm absolutely no shy about subject like that :3 I'm also agree with you to say than we are probably more perverted than the person who experience it... tabun

Yhep. I know that old saying too, but can I count my self to be one of those friends? Hahaha. Im hopeless (〜￣△￣)〜

Exactly my point. We always wonder does it really feels good? why are they making lewd face and noises and such. Being a virging equals to curiousity thats why we end up being pervert. always imagining things like a ghost

of course i do it too!(づ￣ ³￣)づ

Oh thank you! Then I have 3 friends, including myself! Yey!

Yasss xD And when you're imagine the sensation in your head and you believe that it's must be near of what is really, you are proud of you... until you think about the fact than it's can be like you imagine it x)