I would like to try to express my dislike towards Kiheon. Yes the typical “unemotional top” aspect of him isn’t the cutest, but I can look past that. For me it’s how this relationship is supposed to progress in his mind not correlating with reality in the slightest. He has a clear lack of respect not only towards his partner, but the child as well. I’m not at all expecting him to suddenly pop out as father of the year (it would be so nice, but clearly not possible). However, he seems to have a strong desire to form a relationship with Baek-Yeo while the son isn’t really included in that. My problem with this is that Baek-Yeo has made it so clear how important Gyeol is to him and that angers Ki-Heon which angers me. He can buy toys and things all day, but it is also important to get to know Gyeol as well and be present. Show him you care because children aren’t stupid, It’s completely unfair to Gyeol to be dismissed in the long run. Because yes it’s clear him always mentioning another baby is something he does because he wants to have sex. But for a moment let’s say he means that, that he says that simply because he does want another child, why would a man who has a child and doesn’t care for the child want another? To make up for all the missed milestones? Yeah that’s cute, but he still HAS ANOTHER CHILD. Is Gyeol supposed to just watch his parents love and adore another child while he continues to be viewed as a hindrance or someone his father can’t connect to simple because he wasn’t there from day one? That is to say, if he wanted a child simply because he wants to be there, it feels weird that he wouldn’t want to do that for the child he already has.
I would like to try to express my dislike towards Kiheon. Yes the typical “unemotional top” aspect of him isn’t the cutest, but I can look past that. For me it’s how this relationship is supposed to progress in his mind not correlating with reality in the slightest. He has a clear lack of respect not only towards his partner, but the child as well. I’m not at all expecting him to suddenly pop out as father of the year (it would be so nice, but clearly not possible). However, he seems to have a strong desire to form a relationship with Baek-Yeo while the son isn’t really included in that. My problem with this is that Baek-Yeo has made it so clear how important Gyeol is to him and that angers Ki-Heon which angers me. He can buy toys and things all day, but it is also important to get to know Gyeol as well and be present. Show him you care because children aren’t stupid, It’s completely unfair to Gyeol to be dismissed in the long run. Because yes it’s clear him always mentioning another baby is something he does because he wants to have sex. But for a moment let’s say he means that, that he says that simply because he does want another child, why would a man who has a child and doesn’t care for the child want another? To make up for all the missed milestones? Yeah that’s cute, but he still HAS ANOTHER CHILD. Is Gyeol supposed to just watch his parents love and adore another child while he continues to be viewed as a hindrance or someone his father can’t connect to simple because he wasn’t there from day one? That is to say, if he wanted a child simply because he wants to be there, it feels weird that he wouldn’t want to do that for the child he already has.
The end of rant. :)