It’s extremely true aswell. I was emotionally abused by my father growing up and now I hate myself for hating him even though he did wrong.
im sorry to hear that man, it really shows though, that no matter how much people have grown up, become mature and self sufficient, our souls really do have that dependent side on the people who created us. its really heartbreaking hearing the stories people have gone through cuz of their awful parents. I really do pray that people who shouldn't have kids don't. that baggage gets carried on for a lifetime and most people then tend to take it out on their own kids too. :{ hope u start loving urself for who you are regardless of what ur parents put u through bruv. I can't imagine that pain.
Thank you so much. I’ve cut less and less contact with my dad and I am feeling much better as a person, it is very hard especially as I grew up with my dad being my favourite parent by him telling lies about my mother and buying my affection. Although I am slowly realising how bad of a person he is and I am learning to not hate myself for it :)
Im glad ur doing better. take all the time u need to recover and learn who u are and what u enjoy and value in life. :} theres always lots more waiting ahead so never give up
"A child that's being abused by its parents doesn't stop loving its parents, it stops loving itself"
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