"You realize the value of what you have only until you've lost it."
You had him in reach hands, but you kept playing push-and-pull games with him. That's only because he was around and you knew you could still tame him and he will take it. But, now that he has decided to let go of the rope you used to control him and left you, you are talking about bitterness? I'm speechless.
I won't call you an idiot, selfish, or any other type of negative connotation. No, I will not! Instead, what you are is afraid. You are afraid to choose because you are afraid to love and be loved. But mostly, you are afraid of yourself. You believe that you will not meet the expectations of the one you decide to choose. How would you know the future if you haven't even given the present a chance?
At last, you who have let the rope go, run. Run far away and never look back. Change a phone number, a name, or a country. And, indeed, the pain of having loved the one who could not love you back will take a while to go away but trust that with time, it will. And, when that time comes, you'll finally be able to smile and enjoy the smallest things in life. Then, make sure you find yourself the one who deserves your love. Allow yourself to love and to be loved by someone. Don't close your heart to love forever.
And you who have been clinging, in an illegal way, to the fearful one, please, take time to heal. Don't narrate to yourself that by being in a relationship despite your toxic personality, things will get better. No, they will not. You need medical help to heal from all your past demons. Then once you have healed, find yourself the one who will guide you upward and not downward. And, you, in return, have to play the same role as the one who'll let you in their heart. Don't rape, abuse, or manipulate them. And stop using your past to justify your actions. Face the present moment and learn to live in it. Be each other's source of support.
Lastly, to You who are afraid to choose, accept the loss and take time to heal. Take time to be with yourself. There are maybe 4 billion men on the planet, and I'm sure there'll be one you'll be able to choose for yourself. Learn to take risks in love and learn to say no when you come across someone who abuses you in the relationship from the get-go. Don't be someone's puppet but instead be each other's source of strength, comfort, and trust.
Can you be as poetic 'n empathetic as they are? Obviously no. Given how your only thought process of their opinions 'n apothegms was, "Touch grass" like the immature thee.
"You realize the value of what you have only until you've lost it."
You had him in reach hands, but you kept playing push-and-pull games with him. That's only because he was around and you knew you could still tame him and he will take it. But, now that he has decided to let go of the rope you used to control him and left you, you are talking about bitterness? I'm speechless.
I won't call you an idiot, selfish, or any other type of negative connotation. No, I will not! Instead, what you are is afraid. You are afraid to choose because you are afraid to love and be loved. But mostly, you are afraid of yourself. You believe that you will not meet the expectations of the one you decide to choose. How would you know the future if you haven't even given the present a chance?
At last, you who have let the rope go, run. Run far away and never look back. Change a phone number, a name, or a country. And, indeed, the pain of having loved the one who could not love you back will take a while to go away but trust that with time, it will. And, when that time comes, you'll finally be able to smile and enjoy the smallest things in life. Then, make sure you find yourself the one who deserves your love. Allow yourself to love and to be loved by someone. Don't close your heart to love forever.
And you who have been clinging, in an illegal way, to the fearful one, please, take time to heal. Don't narrate to yourself that by being in a relationship despite your toxic personality, things will get better. No, they will not. You need medical help to heal from all your past demons. Then once you have healed, find yourself the one who will guide you upward and not downward. And, you, in return, have to play the same role as the one who'll let you in their heart. Don't rape, abuse, or manipulate them. And stop using your past to justify your actions. Face the present moment and learn to live in it. Be each other's source of support.
Lastly, to You who are afraid to choose, accept the loss and take time to heal. Take time to be with yourself. There are maybe 4 billion men on the planet, and I'm sure there'll be one you'll be able to choose for yourself. Learn to take risks in love and learn to say no when you come across someone who abuses you in the relationship from the get-go. Don't be someone's puppet but instead be each other's source of strength, comfort, and trust.