Idc what excuse or "reasons" you pull.

Falling for someone does not justify ruining their relationship, nor for you to even disturb them. You are just making it more difficult for them to even like you. Like cmon this is common sense. And instead of saying you wanna prove how serious you are, just know we won't take you seriously because you aren't even TAKING THEM SERIOUSLY. This is BASIC RESPECT & MANNERS. Like treat others HOW YOU WANNA BE TREATED. Like unless it's someone who likes being disrespected, that person is not gonna get with you who can't even take what she says seriously and you only care about yourself. Like ok you might've proven yourself or whatever, but you also proved any possible relationship she could have had with you would be a waste. I guess one of the things you could've proved more is that at least you aren't manipulative(so far). But you also could have proven to be respectable, & even if you really love her & can't contain it for whatever reason, at least you are trying which would have been way better than whatever you've just done here. & Maybe I'm complaining too much but I'm trying to prove a point here & at least advising for everyone who's like this guy. Please never be like this guy to any person unless it's consensual. Seriously. This ain't a drama. People don't have the capacity to always deal with garbage & waste their time. You are just causing more harm than good. IK it's ironic coming from someone like me on this place, & I won't act like it's not, but two good rules to follow in life is that "prevention is better than cure" & "never be extreme nor lenient. The middle ground & balance is where you try to be"