This is fine education we've got here
My boy you're so badass for sharing your experiences
Bottoming is hardcore not everyone can do that
Y'all get yourself a good top who cares about your body and treats you with respect
I'm a top lesbian, I have bottomed before and it sucked
Some of them nasty tops out there are real jerks with big attitude
I wish all yaoi authors could read your post, as many of them get so much wrong in the sex scenes. The lack of lube in so many stories is especially disturbing to me. Thank you for sharing your real life experience!
bottoms unite
sometimes yaoi thats written by male authors are pretty impressive because the uke refuses sex, l9ng foreplay and stuff but female/male gayolporn watcher authors are so weird like
HOW THE HECK DOES A MALE LEAKS FROM BEHIND its impossible.
some stuff about gaysex idk i miss my man
1. butthole/sphincters can stretch open and relax to allow the top to penetrate.
- external butthole can be controlled consciously while the internal is not. That is why we need LUBE to allow it to enter successfully. it may hurt for a while but once the muscles have relaxed, its gonna be fine.
2. foreplay
- THIS IS IMPORTANT BEFORE GAY SEX. it can help stimulate and relax your butthole. some bottoms can be overstimulated just by foreplay. (if the top's skills are good)
3. rectum (poop stuff)
- male and female rectum are different. male's rectum is called anorectal angled rectum. It's a 90-degree angle and it allows the poop to be held back until you're ready to shit it out.
- so don't worry about shit getting into your dick or whatsoever. MAKE SURE TO KEEP YOUR ENTRANCE or there might be shit around there.
4. getting ready for entry
- ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOUR TOP USES CONDOM. if they refuse to use condoms, they're a red flag.
- why? because we(bottoms) don't wanna risk our lives suffering from HIV and STDs.
- relax your muscles or it's gonna hurt so bad.
5. MEN DO NOT HAVE HYMEN
- It is called a sigmoid colon. but it is not an erogenous organ. if it were, we're gonna cum every single time we poop.
- it CAN be pleasurable if the top hits the prostate and sigmoid colon's "7". (idk how to explain but yeah)
- it can bleed if the TOP hits the sigmoid colon too hard and it could cause great trauma to your body and you could get stomach aches.
ykw just find a good seme with a big dick that could hit your prostate and your sensitive spots at the same time. it can make you squirt(pee+cum mixed together)
byebye