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I think everyone agrees that he suffered, the thing is, its been 20 YEARS, they were literal kids. If you still hold a grudge then talk about it, go to terapy, dont try to ruin the live of someone who doesnt even remember having ignored you as a kid, he's just being childish.
Yup you said everything perfectly
clearly y'all don't know bullying/DA
of course you'll resent the most those who are superficially nice to you but never really stop your bullying etc ?? not only that, bro didn't deny not being close to him and then started ignoring him,, as in never said a word to him again not even a goodbye
even though they were deskmates
basically treating him like air when he was so desperate for any type of affection