Responses
https://zlibrary-asia.se/book/22375986/8aeb4f/wu-chang-jie-impermanence.html uhhhh,The seme is toxic/obsessive and their past plays an important role, the seme chased the uke in the next incarnation, I'm not done reading it yet, but based on the flashbacks, yep total batshit crazy like "you're mine" and the worst he gets off remembering how he violated the uke, I was like stfu!!!!
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_third_ending/ ( cute stuff, if you haven't read this yet)
Uke chased the seme (like declairingg he likes him or whatcha, trying to get tghe seme's heart) then gave up, then the seme chased him after. (or vice versa)
It's called wife chasing in novels.