As someone whose most fav bl is my starry sky, the only one that struck me as kinda similar was this https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/minority_1/
aw man, you must be such a prolific reader hahahaha
how about these:
BJ Alex
Miscreants and Mayhem
The True Scandal (this one's a bit softer though and more subtle)
Lucky Paradise
Exotic Love (THIS ONE DEF FITS YOUR DESCRIPTION, and the seme is such an ass to the uke at the beginning)
Taming The Tiger
Onegai Sonnnani Kamanaide
Love Shuttle
Unromantic
hope you find these to your liking! (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
Yk where the uke falls first and seme later but harder and I don't mind some mistreatment to the uke by the seme