Help me find this novel

I don’t remember the title of this novel I read, it might also have a manga. Basically the female mc is ignored and abused by her father and brothers her whole life, I think she worked as a maid in the castle they lived in? Then one day she dies and goes back in time to when she was a child. She distances herself from them and they try to get closer to her and feel really bad when they learn how they treated her in her past life. I think she becomes an elementalist wizard when she gets older in the new life and fights in battles? I remember the finished novel was broken into 4-5 volumes you could read online.