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Actually, there are a lot but... yeah, it's pretty hard to avoid the red flags and their toxicity even with the most memorable and heartwarming manhwa/ga/hua (/TДT)/
... so, if someone answers your question, I hope they share something good to read without red flags too please ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ! because I am searching for more of them (=・ω・=) !
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I think that it's just fiction and to be entertaining it doesn't have to be perfect. Therefore I don't focus on some (stupid) "flags", I look at the whole picture and see if it comes to my liking. Sure there're things I won't forgive. Sadly quite often there's unjustified (by the plot) violence or (even worse!) the authors try to justified it with "love". Then I'll vent #-.-)
So I'm glad there're lists of titles without toxicity, fot the times I don't want to read/watch smth supposedly romantic but ending with bullshit, like some anime I've seen a few months ago, I still remember how out of the character and the story it was _^_ or in BJ Alex I've had that cringe too - this one I started bc I saw it has high notes and is recommended... The thred with his friend was more interesting, and I'm not even into bdsm in general ;)
Can anyone tell me if the ml is red flag or not?