everyone saying this is so mature when he literally was throwing pottery vases against a w...

C.... November 29, 2023 2:45 am

everyone saying this is so mature when he literally was throwing pottery vases against a wall, also maybe it’s me but adult men tussling when “in love” isn’t that realistic nor entertaining

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    Saikei December 4, 2023 6:10 am

    Yeah, it is not realistic for adult men to be emotional and to feel things and to, god forbid, be scarred from the past. Surely, throwing your self-made ceramics from getting inspiration is not a way to cope. I would like to ask how "mature" "adult men" should be acting and coping, maybe you know some.

    C.... December 4, 2023 7:15 am

    well yes i think mature adult men shouldn’t have to put their hands on each other and throw things to get their point across…if this was a straight love story y’all wouldn't gag over being so physical (in a non sex way) in the name of love. this isn’t me stereotyping men and boohoo men can’t talk about their feelings or cry but more so questioning why in gay media men fighting is always seen as more in love then idk …using their words!? but honestly just gtf

    Saikei December 4, 2023 11:08 am

    Men fighting is seen as more in love? Says who? People don't just "talk" about their problems irl. Also, not everyone copes the same way in real life. Of course you'd talk about it, when you're both cooled down???

    C.... December 4, 2023 10:26 pm
    Men fighting is seen as more in love? Says who? People don't just "talk" about their problems irl. Also, not everyone copes the same way in real life. Of course you'd talk about it, when you're both cooled down... Saikei

    blah blah blah

    sen December 10, 2023 9:27 pm
    Men fighting is seen as more in love? Says who? People don't just "talk" about their problems irl. Also, not everyone copes the same way in real life. Of course you'd talk about it, when you're both cooled down... Saikei

    well said Saikei

    MilkTeaAddict December 19, 2023 8:22 pm
    Men fighting is seen as more in love? Says who? People don't just "talk" about their problems irl. Also, not everyone copes the same way in real life. Of course you'd talk about it, when you're both cooled down... Saikei

    I think the main point is that the guy is throwing a vase. That's definitely not mature and no, you do NOT need to throw things to the wall when you're angry. EQ issue