Why do y’all keep codling a grown man just because he has trauma? It’s an explanation not an excuse. I’m not gonna spoil the story because I don’t know if you’ve read ahead, however I will say this. I find it pretty ridiculous that just because someone lived through a rough experience that gives them leeway to do whatever the hell they want. Again idk if you’ve read that far, but I have and seeing the actual fuckery and bullshit behaviour Woo was on made me roll my eyes. But regardless it is his fault as well, because instead of actually communicating he decides to cry in his bed and be petty with the flowers. His ass is pushing 30 yet he expects the younger one to be the one to take initiative. He’s treating Tae like some opportunist. Again trauma and what not, I get it, but how long can we keep using that an an excuse?
Lmao dont respect my opinion because i am going through that frustration phase with this damned manhwa. Also do you even know how trauma works? His past is literally him not being able to speak up for himself and it says a lot about how his trauma is NOT healed, him and taehwan just got together dont expect him to be all alpha and shit and be able to overcome his trauma that quickly. Trauma needs rehabilitation hon, trauma isnt an excuse I KNOW; - woojin had a rough past - he's developed ptsd from it- him and taehwan just got together - his ptsd is hitting. Now if your little brain can put it all together it equals to "He's not fucking healed yet, grown man or not trauma is serious and a big deal, and its fucking hard to overcome it" Now on taehwans yeah once again he's naive, a pushover, he's a good guy but the story is literally gonna go nowhere if he's gonna stay oblivious, taehwan can see he's having a hard time yet he cant even ask some simple questions of comfort to ask his beloved bf, i bet he doesnt even know woojins fav color. If its not that maybe he just doesnt know his boyfriend too well ,oh and you having read the raws doesnt give you the upper hand here, you're so wrong on the trauma part, stop acting like woojin killed someone over his trauma, damn.
you're right about thepart where we cant keep using that excuse OH BUT NOW WE STILL CAN they just got together
U missed my point, reading the raws does give me the upper hand because his actions from here on out become inexcusable, sure being a bad bf at times is one thing, no one is perfect but in the future you’ll see what I mean. I’ll respect ur opinion for now but in these upcoming chapters I suggest you look at it from a different perspective because if this is how y’all view relationships…then it’s quite concerning. Woos friend literally warned Tae about his ridiculous behaviour. I do wanna point out that the only reason y’all defend Woo so much is because he’s the “bottom” in the relationship, and therefore is seen as the more “feminine one”. His action are therefore seen as less severe. If Tae was on the same BS that Woo was on, my point about not coddling people will be taken more seriously. Regardless of his outwards appearance Woo is a grown man and while yes his trauma explains his actions it doesn’t excuse them. Him being hurt doesn’t give him a right to be an actual terrible person, again I won’t spoil it cuz I’m not a bitch but like Woo is quite literally a terrible person. People wanna add more nuance to it but his actions, and the steps he takes to “fix them” are fucking ridiculous. I implore you to think about this more rationally, because others who come out of toxic or harmful relationships would NEVER behave in the way they Woo does, why? Because it’s a shitty thing to do. And even if some people do, it’s agreeable that it’s still shitty. No one is debating Woo’s trauma that’s barely the point of discussion,
the dude is quite literally the definition of self sabotage and toxicity. But whatever agree to disagree
You all are blaming Taehwan wayyyy too much, it’s not Woojin’s fault at all but it’s definitely not Taehwans either. For their relationship to work both of their downsides need to be met and improved neither of them is more at fault than the other
I DONT COMPLETELY BLAME TAEHWAN, but him knowing what Woojin's going through and went through i dont understand how he can still show that much closure to someone. I understand the part where he's a fucking pushover and is just too kind but WHY THE FUCK do you have to update your boyfriend about shit that seems good news to you but not for him, he's not considering what Woojin's going through and it's fucking obvious, or he just simply forgot and thinks he got better with their current relationship now. He's so fucking naive TOO NAIVE like bro i think if i were the girl I'd cry myself to sleep if a guy gives me hope and it turns out he was dating someone ANYWAYS I DONT WANNA BE HER EITHER COZ SHE'S ANNOYING ASFUCK . On the good side, he's a better boyfriend, he's not abusive, HES JUST TOO FUCKING NAIVE, he doesnt even know hes hurting his boyfriend, and let alone the fact that he's giving hope to the other girl. AND DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED WITH "ITS PARTLY WOOJINS FAULT" NO BITCH HE HAS TRAUMA, HE WENT THROUGH IT BEFORE, AIN'T NO WAY IT'S GONNA BE EASY FOR HIM