I'm worried for y'all...

I'm worried too, but what can they do when all they see in reels and recs are jinx, bj alex, pearl boy etc????? （￣へ￣） ┗( T﹏T )┛

EXACTLYY

I agree with everything except pearl boy, Dooshik is one hell of a green flag.

um,, no??? haahaha im laughing my ass right now AINT NO WAY PLS-

NO??? LMAO GOT ME LAUGHIN WHERE UR STANDARDS AT

Dawgg upgrade Ur standards

That's very interesting, this is the first time I have people disagree with Dooshik being a green flag. Till now I always only ever saw people praising him, so I'm really interested where you guys are coming from. I'd love to hear what your opinions on him are and what about him that makes you say he is a red flag.

for dooshik, like i truly have no comments. But Pilwon? yeah, what do you expect?

I expect nothing when it comes to Pilwon because I wasn't talking about him to beging with. I asked why some people might consider Dooshik as a red flag. I get that the story itself is extremely unpleasant but what does it have to do with Dooshik being toxic?

answering as3ault w r3pe w as3ault w r3pe [to twins], being super obsessed w joha in an unhelpful way through choking n hurting him just cause of his useless annoying anxiety n stress [see ch 82-83], pushing jooha on judge making him have more stress n being under pressure than he already is; i can list you till morning what he did wrong but we let it be for now

ok, thank you for replying. yeah with the ch. 82-83 you make a really good point, there's no excuse for him there. however I think it's unfair to compare him with Jinx and BJ Alex semes, because they purposely hurt their ukes, unlike Dooshik who was scared for Jooha's life. I think it would have been better if Dosshik told Jooha why he was so paranoid, instead of being obsessed with his safety but he did that because he didn't want Jooha to be under more anxiety over Pilwon than he already was or run away like he did last time. Jooha's behavior was unpredictable at that time do to trauma and Dooshik did what he thought was best (not that I agree with his choice, I wish he tolk a different approach). I also think it's unfair to say that Dooshik had a useless annoying anxiety in ch 82-83 after what happened in chapter 69-73, by that point Dooshik had a mental breakdown and physically hurt Jooha for the first time (which I want to state is inexcusable, that made me really upset too). I think what made that setuation more upsetting is the fact that Dooshik never apologized to Jooha for that. Non the less, I think that other yaoi that would better suit with the level of Jinx and BJ Alex toxicity (between the seme and uke) are: Even If You Don't Love Me, Legs That Won't Walk, Roses And Champagne. Compared to those semes Dooshik seems like a green flag to me. But that's just my opinion. I see where you're coming from so I respect yours.

honestly intentions don't matter when you've already hurt the other person, so.

I guess, agree to disagree (that is as long if the person sincerely apologies for their mistake) I think intentions matter. But again, that's just my opinion.

thanks for typing alot n analyzing his character but i’m afraid to say it doesn’t matter to me since he hurt him anyways n was obsessed w jooha from first n never apologized. what most makes me hate him is his ra3pist character n what he did to twins so.. i’m never going to call the character that was once my first top green flag n disappointed me “green flag” ever again cause it honestly doesn’t matter shit to me he saved him n did alot of other bs, being red flag doesn’t mean just hurting uke physically from first, yall should really learn these things j don’t be blind against it. honestly, fu3k him he can go to jail n be there, since there ain’t any difference between him n pilwon :) one was portrayed as villain, the other as hero but w same intentions:)) you can continue to argue about his “green flag” uwu shit but you can’t convince me, i’m sorry.

Well my point is not to convince someone to agree with me. On the contrary I wanted to find out why people have a different opinion than me, since this is the first time I stumbled upon a comment thread that disagreed with Dooshik being a green flag. I guess the healthier a story is, the higher standards are of what it means to be a green flag that people will have in the comments, which is really good thing. I hope to see more stories like this one in the future. Now that I know where you guys are coming from, I feel like my curiosity got satisfied lol :) I have to agree on the part, that at some point Dooshik was my #1 top green flag as well and it hurt to see him loose the first spot. Non the less he is still in my top ten green flag seems. I guess we can agree on to disagree.

i see, i can agree. sadly i can’t see the same when i’m disappointed on some1, same w dooshik being green