Stop the cap.. Jooin is obviously beyond indecisive and it's fucking tiring. Even his mom called him out for it.
I don't think Cain is necessarily forcing him to choose between him and Yahwi. There's definitely a pressure for an answer but it's to hear Jooin tell him firmly weather to stay or not, not to pick between them. But there's no point with majority of the readers their so up their asses hating on Jooin when Jooin gives the more real side of being Indecisive, he's worried if who he chooses to spend his life with and how the future will turn out
That’s what I’m feeling to!
I’ve been in a love triangle before and have never been as indecisive as jooin has been it’s pretty tiring. He also has many options.
On one hand, it's not that serious. He could always leave and be alone or find someone else. The author intentionally makes this situation seem much deeper and harder than it actually is. Jooin knows damn well that they are done with Yahwi, so he could easily ask for a restraining order against him. On the other hand, I understand that being with Cain right away would be too challenging for him, since he's still too weak to face his family, whom are clearly against this relationship.
No. I'm not gonna pretend emotions are so black and white.
If choices were easy, wars wouldn't happen, rape and murder wouldn't exist, compassion would be endless and everyone would love everyone.
Humans are weak to their emotions, they act on them without thought, or have experienced so much negativity with reacting that they start to overthink everything.
We're influenced by our experiences and trauma.
It would be so nice to have such a limited experience that you only experience happiness and ease without ever being overwhelmed with emotions.
That's a fair point, but it also ignores the toxic jealousy I've seen flair up in Cain.
But you got a point
Just because you experience the same situation differently doesn't mean decisions aren't hard.
You just said emotions aren't that serious.
So, you're either aromantic, apathetic, or borderline sociopath or psychopath.
Or, you've been in a love triangle and felt strung along, so you think there should be a clear answer.
Not trying to diagnose you, I'm just trying to rationalize how you can be so cold and indifferent to a serious situation.
Sure, we can say it's fake, but it's not like these situations don't happen in real life.
Hence why forced monogamy is so toxic.
People don't *need* to only have one partner.
And if Cain and Yahwi are so adamant about him only choosing one, then one of them should walk away instead of forcing him to choose.
People that make you choose don't have your best intentions in mind, it's all about themselves instead
It's a trait of narcissism.
I understand that what I wrote made no sense to what I actually meant. I meant that I’ve been in that situation and it had an easy answer. But I also understand that not everyone is in the same situation. I definitely should have worded it better sorry :3
I can tell you've never cared about more than one person at a time, or maybe you've never been in relationships; but being forced to choose is heartbreaking.
It's like if you want your cake or to eat it.
Having your cake means not eating it.
Eating your cake means it's gone.
It's not much of a choice when you have to compromise between happiness and misery.
And Jooin isn't wrong.
Even Cain, whom is so loyal, is still forcing Jooin to choose between him or Yahwi.
This is the toxic side of monogamy.
They could easily be happy in an ENM relationship.
You don't need some made up label to be happy.