Responses
it doesnt make his "realistic and valid reaction" any less disrespectful and intentionally offensive. Regardless of age gap or his guardian status, his "adult" response was dismissing someone's affections PLUS marketting them off to some stranger.
He couldve stopped at "i only look at you as a son, a younger brother, a family that is not within the boundary of romance. But please stop pursuing me." Period.
It's one thing to reject his feeling and another to dismiss it, trample it, and make excuses like "being the adult" as if your adulthood gives you the right to disrespect someone's emotions just because you dont think rejection isnt enough to hurt them :)