does anyone have any BL recs where the couple are already in a relationship??? courting is...

These are the ones I remember that fit your description

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/run_way_no_yukue_wo_shiritaika/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kawa_ni_sazanami/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_most_ordinary_relationship/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sweet_hour_1r/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kazoku_ni_narouyo/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hige_to_suzu_to_shabondama/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shiawase_gohan_maki_to_hanazawa/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/boku_no_papa_to_papa_no_hanashi/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tadaima_okaeri/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/konna_nichijou/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/torokeru_tamago_to_bed_no_naka_de/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koishite_kissshite_kanjaitai/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/wait_in_bed_tonight/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/amattare_wa_inu_mo_kuwanai/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shishunki_cherry_bullet/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/daisuki_doushi_ga_shitai_koto/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/papa_x_papa_to_de_sorezore_yattemasu/

https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/2547811/

thanks!!

thanks!!