sasya still weird just like y'all!

lana November 17, 2023 3:00 am

Miss Rambouillet spilled fr because he REALLY could've sold that ring. Anyways... the letter he sent was addressed to the Madame, in regards to recommendation was it not...? It's evident that Sasya clearly has issues with his mental health (not about to come on here and be a fake psychotherapist like y'all love to do). Beyond reasonable doubt it's quite obvious that he was and probably still isn't in a position to give Karel the love that he deserves. Why should Karel have to deal with a damaged traumatised person, if it were the other way around y'all would be so QUICK to say leave the seme... NEXT.

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    lana November 17, 2023 3:21 am

    slight caveat** even if he did go through the trouble of contacting him, I still insist that the relationship doesn't work. Sasya doesn't want to be accountable for his OWN mental health. Which again, makes him weird he's a grown adult.
    It's not cute that he has to depend on everyone around him to pick up the pieces, whilst he rots in bed and twirls around like a drunk fairy. (y'all playing into that is definitely symptomatic of MLM fetishisation in the context of BLs)
    Conclusion, if y'all are okay with being someone's emotional slave so be it, but stop expecting the same from others LOL

    i'm still gonna read though hoping Sasya can actually redeem himself and prove himself worthy of Karel.

    MSue November 20, 2023 1:50 am
    slight caveat** even if he did go through the trouble of contacting him, I still insist that the relationship doesn't work. Sasya doesn't want to be accountable for his OWN mental health. Which again, makes him... lana

    He tried to send two letters, one to the front lines (aka Karel) and the other to the madame. They didn’t send either as they suspected him of espionage. I won’t discuss the story further than this, just wanted to clarify that since you asked.

    I understand this is a fictional story, a completely made up character, and you have free will to feel however you wish to feel. However, the way you speak of a mentally ill person (regardless of the fiction, as this sentiment that you’ve expressed yourself translates directly to how you feel about these people), is truly pitiful. I imagine you have never dealt with major issues that have impacted your life so much so that you’ve ended up severely depressed/anxious/traumatized. It’s something that takes over your life entirely, whether you want it or not, and no amount of age and maturity will help you get out of it. In order to break free from the very horrible cycle one needs to: 1) realize you have issues that need to be resolved, 2) have a really positive AND helpful support system, and 3) have a strong will and determination to get help (which is affected by the situation itself).

    No one has ever asked to have mental issues, or willfully become a burden on others when it’s severe. Adults don’t have it all figured out and when things get really tough, the only way they see out on many occasions is suicide (which, in the story’s case, Sasya attempted at least about three times under Julian’s watch iirc). Despite all of this, mentally ill people are deserving of love and affection just as well as fully sane ones. It’s one thing if you personally could not deal with it, that’s completely valid, but don’t force your view on anyone else or the story. It’s very repugnant and shows a severe lack of empathy.

    LoverOfYaoi November 20, 2023 6:25 am
    He tried to send two letters, one to the front lines (aka Karel) and the other to the madame. They didn’t send either as they suspected him of espionage. I won’t discuss the story further than this, just wa... MSue

    Dude I always love your responses! Very intellectual and mature and I know OP won’t even respond to your response because of their level of thinking

    MSue November 20, 2023 10:45 pm
    Dude I always love your responses! Very intellectual and mature and I know OP won’t even respond to your response because of their level of thinking LoverOfYaoi

    Thank you, and I don’t believe they will either. It’s a shame some people can judge others so harshly on the account of something they might not even understand.