So glad you said this. People need to be responsible and be held accountable for their own actions. Being hurt in the past doesn't give people the right to hurt others and it's not a free pass either. Not everyone is a cheater and the uke shouldn't treat Taewhan like he is.
well said
Yes, YES, all of this. I've even been with someone who used to tell me they wanted to die every day from depression. Eventually it's emotionally and mentally exhausting to keep them feeling loved and validated because the bar gets higher and higher and they need it more and more often. It kills you ever so slowly. So the fact the spoilers say he cheated because of this makes me genuinely hate the bottom. He's a victim AND a perpetrator by that point. Therapy should be more of a thing in comics but then we wouldn't have such drama lol
You spoke so well that I hearted and favorite your comments, thank you for this insight
I really do feel for the grey haired dude, really. His circumstances were really sad and it's easy to understand why it affects him the way it does HOWEVER, I feel like people don't understand how frustrating it is to deal with someone like that especially in a relationship. Going out of your way to make them feel validated, walking on egg shells, and being treated like a opprtunist who's just waiting to cheat is not fun. When it comes to people like the uke, once they have an idea in their head it's hard to change their mind. He already convinced himself that something more is going on, and while that is understandable because what happened in the past, it doesnt change the fact it's shitty for the other person. He needs to heal, grow and get help before he start's getting into relationships. His friend already warned Taewhan, even it's unintentional it doesn't change the fact that he has the protentional to be toxic. I'm sympathetic towards him but at the same time Taewhan shouldn't be the one to bare the weight of his insecurities.