hate the new 2nd ml

first of all- she's in a relationship, why the fuck is he still hitting on her (gross). second of all- i really hate how he's being dominant and she's all like 'oh i actually don't dislike being dominated now' like girl shut it. the same is happening at the end of s flower and sure, experimentation, whatever, but it feels very like.. 'all girls will ultimately enjoy being submissibe, they just need to find the right guy'. and i hate it. anyone else feel the same?