The way he phrased him wanting to be herself was just terrible… He’s basically saying he only likes her one way and that way only—what if her personality changes in the future? People are not a flat linear line, they change… it makes you wonder if he’d still like her even if she didn’t remain the same girl she was when he first met her thus creating uncertainty in his feelings, the way he went about it was so rude too
There are softer ways to go about telling your gf you want her to just act comfortable around you and be herself, rather than calling her boring and that he doesn’t like her when she acts different from usual, you could tell she was trying her best even if that best might not have been the usual her, and rather than not liking her anymore after that he should be thinking it’s cute/sweet she’s trying for him
TLDR: softly reassure, don’t use such rude words saying you don’t like her after she acts differently from her usual self
The way he phrased him wanting to be herself was just terrible… He’s basically saying he only likes her one way and that way only—what if her personality changes in the future? People are not a flat linear line, they change… it makes you wonder if he’d still like her even if she didn’t remain the same girl she was when he first met her thus creating uncertainty in his feelings, the way he went about it was so rude too
There are softer ways to go about telling your gf you want her to just act comfortable around you and be herself, rather than calling her boring and that he doesn’t like her when she acts different from usual, you could tell she was trying her best even if that best might not have been the usual her, and rather than not liking her anymore after that he should be thinking it’s cute/sweet she’s trying for him
TLDR: softly reassure, don’t use such rude words saying you don’t like her after she acts differently from her usual self