It is bad, in a way. Not having each other's contacts since the break up is a good idea. Don't catch feelings again for the guy who broke up with you.
I know... I'm trying real hard and it's been almost 2 months that we broke up. No contact at all but sometimes I think bout him out of nowhere when I try not to.
a. get something really stinky, and when you think about him, take a whiff. b. give it time. don't call him no matter what. c. google "tapping." for some people it works like a miracle. d. make a list of everything you'd like in a mate. be extremely specific and make it a long list. set it by a candle and light the candle for a little while. Just do it. e. lie in bed in comfortable old clothes, read tons of manga, and realize how happy it makes you when you do exactly what you want to do, and not what the two of you want to do, which entails compromise. f. don't call the break-up king/son of a bitch.
Thnx
Nice!
I wonder is it bad to still have feelings for your ex although they were the one that broke up with you? I wish I can forget real soon and not be onto him anymore. We don't have each other's contacts ever since we broke up.