Responses
to add this is just on the semes side. if the seme was more openminded/considerate i feel like the uke's opinion might start to change of him. start seeing him for more of his softer sides. altho still an ass (seme), the uke would most likely be able to process his feelings more as well as be honest.
seme just doesnt realize that sex isnt enough and this is romantic thing which is something he lacks. He doesnt have romantic relationships, purely sexual and that way of living has caused him to be really closed minded when it comes to relationships on a whole.
liking him = sex
instead of
liking him = romance/relationship