Is this bad?

You should try asking him why he leaves you on delivered or like is there something going on with out you knowing

Umm if you've already given up, doesn't that mean you've already given up on your relationship?

If you're starting to feel that way then I think it's bad, if you want to find out what his thinking then directly ask him if his still serious. At times like this talking to each is important since communicating with each other is essential to a relationship. If your really
did lose interest then it's better to call it quits. Anyway this goes both ways.

If one of you guys lose interest then talk it out since you'll just be wasting each other's time.

Plus if you feel like that already then isn't it just better to just formally end your relationship?

Let me ask do u feel like u have to be in relationship with him ?

We're both pretty busy with our lives but he tells me he tries to reply to me as soon as he can, what I don't get is how he can't spare even 2 mind to reply back in the 6-24 hours that I've been waiting

I think from my perspective it's more like I've given up on my feelings about the negative aspects in my relationship with him, I still hope for the best regarding us two, he's honestly a good person and treats me well.


The biggest issue here is he thinks of me as this "nonchalant" girlfriend and he constantly says how glad he was that I was like that since his exes were all batshit crazy. So it kinda gave me the impression that if I were to express my feelings regarding things likes jealousy and what not, I'd feel like he's gonna start thinking that I'm the same to his exes

I dont feel like I have to be in a relationship with him but I really enjoy and appreciate his company when we're together and his presence really calms me down which I enjoy. But I don't feel any sort of attachment, if he wants to leave then he can leave type thing, I have no issue in leaving as well if he does me wrong

Oh i understand you
I think u think of him like friend if u don't have

Sorry i didn't complete what i was writing so...
What i think is that U don't see him as a boyfriend but as a friend who u appreciate his company u don't fill hurt When he don't try building a conversation with you or ask u how ur day was
U re not obligated to stay in relationship with him but u didn't find a good reason to break up with him

Ask yourself do i want to be in relationship with him ?
If not u can talk and remind as friends

leave him, when they can’t reply or talk to you they’re most likely cheating, i just recently went through this

Σ( ￣□￣||) Have you tried reminding them they are in a relationship? Dube be forgetting.

I do want to be in a relationship with him but I feel like I've been ignoring the issues I have with him because I feel like if I tell him, it shows all my vulnerability and from my past experiences, me opening up to them only ended up with us ending

How did you find out if you don't mind me asking?

In situations like this u need to be serious with him like u don't want to waste your time in relationship with someone who doesn't care about you
U have to give a value to yourself so people know your true worth and value
Tell him that your not someone he can spands his free time with if his not serious in you relationship u better break up and find the real man who treasure you (=・ω・=)

you can tell by actions and even how they talk to you, me personally i observe everything so when he started cheating on me i almost immediately knew. try not to contact them all day, if they don’t contact you first you can either ask them abt or leave