Is this really shounen ai? I still don't see the love between MC and ML ╥﹏╥

Shou November 2, 2023 3:07 am

Is this really shounen ai? I still don't see the love between MC and ML ╥﹏╥

Responses
    AsterryFlower November 3, 2023 10:06 pm

    Considering the genre i think this is gonna be a slowburn that could start a bit later when the case is (or almost) solved. Hoping that lanqiao doesn’t get himself in trouble.

    marzzz November 4, 2023 7:11 am

    i think the MC was in love with the dead brother from the very beginning. it's possible that there's no romance in the main story.

    ... November 4, 2023 11:46 am

    I think the romance was between the older brother who died and the police guy mc. It’s disturbing if the police guy gets together with his dead lovers little brother.

    AsterryFlower November 4, 2023 5:47 pm
    I think the romance was between the older brother who died and the police guy mc. It’s disturbing if the police guy gets together with his dead lovers little brother. ...

    Idk abt disturbing but i feel like there’s gonna be some sort of trauma bonding or something. The whole thing is really focused on the serial murder case so idk abt romance

    ... November 4, 2023 8:21 pm
    Idk abt disturbing but i feel like there’s gonna be some sort of trauma bonding or something. The whole thing is really focused on the serial murder case so idk abt romance AsterryFlower

    So I googled trauma bonding to check whether it can happen in a non romantic way as well and turns out trauma bonding is a different way of saying Stockholm syndrome o.O guess we learn some new everyday ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍
    So let’s hope that doesn’t happen.

    Kirian November 13, 2023 12:13 am

    So far in the second season there is no romance at all but the police guy and the ml are getting along very well that they ended up living together and it might turn into a romantic thing...who knows. I don't really care about the romantic stuff cause the cases they solve are quite interesting but I doubt there is going to be a romantic relationship at all.

    AsterryFlower November 13, 2023 5:59 am
    So I googled trauma bonding to check whether it can happen in a non romantic way as well and turns out trauma bonding is a different way of saying Stockholm syndrome o.O guess we learn some new everyday ┑(�... ...

    Lmfaoo basically but not always extreme. Basically two people going through the same traumatic experience and bonding over it. Like in a case where two people would get kidnapped and manage to escape, they’d get closer and bond “thanks” to it. They wouldn’t necessarily end up romantically involved but they got closer because they can understand each other from the same trauma they both were exposed to. If that makes sense, i’m not the best at explaining stuff

    AsterryFlower November 13, 2023 5:59 am
    So far in the second season there is no romance at all but the police guy and the ml are getting along very well that they ended up living together and it might turn into a romantic thing...who knows. I don'... Kirian

    Fr at first i was in it for the romance but bow i just want to solve the case

    ... November 13, 2023 9:44 am
    Lmfaoo basically but not always extreme. Basically two people going through the same traumatic experience and bonding over it. Like in a case where two people would get kidnapped and manage to escape, they’d ... AsterryFlower

    Umm Nopes. That’s what I thought too. That’s why I wanted to check if that bonding can happen non romantically. But it literally means Stockholm syndrome. As in bonding between a victim and their abuser to form a sort of balance and as a defence mechanism for the victim. Google used the term Stockholm syndrome to describe trauma bonding.

    ... November 13, 2023 9:44 am
    So far in the second season there is no romance at all but the police guy and the ml are getting along very well that they ended up living together and it might turn into a romantic thing...who knows. I don'... Kirian

    True. That’s what I am here for too.

    Keiji December 3, 2023 5:08 am

    Well considering the authors other works there is no need to worry, it's always been like " slowly but surely"(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    sweety1997 December 23, 2023 2:19 am
    Lmfaoo basically but not always extreme. Basically two people going through the same traumatic experience and bonding over it. Like in a case where two people would get kidnapped and manage to escape, they’d ... AsterryFlower

    that is not trauma bonding. you mean "maybe they will bond over a shared trauma". trauma bonding specifically is a word that refers to a relationship between a victim and their abuser.

    AsterryFlower December 23, 2023 7:12 am
    Umm Nopes. That’s what I thought too. That’s why I wanted to check if that bonding can happen non romantically. But it literally means Stockholm syndrome. As in bonding between a victim and their abuser to ... ...

    AsterryFlower December 23, 2023 7:18 am
    that is not trauma bonding. you mean "maybe they will bond over a shared trauma". trauma bonding specifically is a word that refers to a relationship between a victim and their abuser. sweety1997

    I’m not gonna copy paste again what i just sent since it would serve no purpose, so instead i can invite you to check the reply i just sent to the person above you with a quote and a link. There’s also another one like this
    https://kimberlycenter.com/mental-health/trauma-bonding/
    I didn’t dive too deep into it and i’m no psychologist but whenever i heard about trauma bonding it was always in this context

    Bella January 12, 2024 4:09 am

    Cause it's a slow burn. The author already confirmed that this is a suspense bl

    Bella January 12, 2024 4:24 am
    I think the romance was between the older brother who died and the police guy mc. It’s disturbing if the police guy gets together with his dead lovers little brother. ...

    Yes, the romance is between the detective and the younger brother. The author already confirmed it is a suspense bl in their Weibo account. It's a slow burn, the love will be get unfold slowly. They are really fated from the beginning of the story. You will see hints of how much history the two characters have especially when the sea shells was revealed. Maybe that's why the brother had to die. A lot of symbolism. He was in love with his brother but he was not his fate. Now it's all depends on how the author will unfold love between them

    marzzz January 13, 2024 7:19 pm
    Yes, the romance is between the detective and the younger brother. The author already confirmed it is a suspense bl in their Weibo account. It's a slow burn, the love will be get unfold slowly. They are really ... Bella

    ooh! so glad you commented this. it's clear the younger brother already has feelings for him so this is fun. i was afraid it would be ending soon since this plotline seems to be coming to an end but i guess we still don't know anything about the brother. hopefully this one doesn't end suddenly like the last one

    ROSE January 14, 2024 1:40 am
    ooh! so glad you commented this. it's clear the younger brother already has feelings for him so this is fun. i was afraid it would be ending soon since this plotline seems to be coming to an end but i guess we ... marzzz

    How do you know the younger brother already has feelings for him? I think we are in season 2 and I'm not sure how many seasons they will be covering. The story looks like it's going to be long.

    marzzz January 14, 2024 5:06 pm
    How do you know the younger brother already has feelings for him? I think we are in season 2 and I'm not sure how many seasons they will be covering. The story looks like it's going to be long. ROSE

    those flashbacks seem to indicate that he had such feelings although he had no intention of pursuing him or anything. at least that's how it felt to me. but i could be wrong

    ROSE January 15, 2024 5:56 am

    It doesn't show him having such feelings yet. He looks pretty straight to me. It will definitely change the tho.