Lookin for manga title

It was a BL manga where a guy’s boyfriend suddenly married someone but still thought they would be in a relationship, but MC obviously does not want to be with him. ML decides to pursue MC and I think he’s a bartender? MC is reluctant but ML is very eager and persuades him a chance and they’re doing pretty good until MC’s ex tracks him down and SA him. The ex records it and send it to ML, who still wants him. MC and ML break up and MC is an abusive relationship with ex but gets to courage to see ML and they get back together.