Wait I never knew queer was a slur? I always thought it was used to broadly term the LGBTQ+ community like you said and also for people who were confused about their labels? Honestly I feel it's a really nice term and makes you feel comfortable and not feel like you need to really think of labelling yourself in depth(?)
I actually prefer describing myself as queer because I’m not really 100% sure what my sexuality identity is & I don’t really care to put a label on myself I just ik for sure I’m not straight and I also don’t want to be put in a box so queer is just all encompassing for me. Also yes I knew it was a slur but we have reclaimed it.
I personally don't have a problem with it especially with how many lgbt+ terms were formerly considered slurs such as "homo", "drag", or "twink"
And the word "queer" along with many other former lgbt+ slurs have gained new meanings in this day and age
I love how queer is used to include questioning people into the community and those unsure of what they consider themselves, so I think it's quite nice how the term queer has evolved
So, I've always used the word queer. Not as a slur but just as a broad term for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community and only recently found out it's also used as a slur. I was just curious on what other people think of the word.