I actuals thought the tattoo guy would be top bc of how dom he looks. totally gives off to...

First, that’s very stereotypical of you, in the real world, any guy can be a bottom no matter how they looks. Sometimes bottoms are the muscular guys in the relationships and the dominant ones. There’s no “rules” when it comes to who is a top or bottom, this is just you playing into people’s stereotypical bottom and top looks.