It’s not the uke’s job and DID is not something you just “cure”. It’s a very complicated disorder. I would recommend you watch DID creators and what their take on relationships is. This isn’t romanticizing anything lol
DiD creators? No thanks, I'd rather watch and read from academic sources. It was actually part of my course. I'm no expert, far from it, and i know it can hardly be "cured", but it can certainly get a bit better and more bearable with the right therapy.
Why would you not listen to ppl who actually have the disorder? This is such a weird and ableist response
How do i know they actually have disorders? I don't like watching creators (youtube or otherwise) on such topics. Youtube is unfortunately full of opportunistic people and disinformation. There might be some who actually have the diagnosis, but I won't take a chance to get info on such important issues from websites anyone can say anything without any back up. Not only that, this mental disorder (as well as other) are getting veeeery popular on social networks and it's really irking how awful these kids are at pretending they have it. Especially when it comes to kids on the spectrum (my field of study)
If you have a suggestion who i could watch, and who has a strong basis to back up DID diagnosis, I'd be happy to check it out.
I don't know guys... It's good that uke accepted seme and his condition... But him choosing to accept the status quo and not helping seme to overcome his trauma and get his mental state in order is selfish to me. Being this unstable mentally just asks for further deteriorated psyche which will lead to other mental disorders. His personalities are already clashing, fully aware of each other and pretty much can't stand each other? Man I can't imagine the struggle to live with someone 24/7 you cant stand and also fucks the love of your life.