I get what you mean, but Theo didn't want Seram to leave his people to suffer and it not like he doesn't want him to go either, but it's what they must do if they want to raise their child somewhere safe and protected, especially since the crown prince is after Theo and who knows what he may do if he finds him and his child.
No, they made him apologize for being irresponsible by wanting to abandon everything they worked hard for before they even met each other. He wasn’t thinking clearly and wasn’t carefully taking into consideration all the dangers they’d face as well as the fact that his kingdom likely won’t be happy with Theo.
They really made my man apologize for wanting to stay with his lover and child