Ah is it possible you have never been in love?
Why are u asking?
Hihi because you dont understand why they are staying together and giving in...
Ritsu is in love with Rui thats why he gives in and Rui wants to do everything for Ritsu because he is in love with him.....
And btw Ritsu isnt selfish at all, he wanted to break up despite being in love because he doesnt want to hurt or burden Rui.
Because he knows his sanity will break eventually.
Your will gets mighty weak when you are in love
Why does it feel like you're making it look like Ritsu is so pitiful and a good person for actually wanting to break up? That's what HE SHOULD do because I will be thinking how much more shameless he is than now if he begged to be with Rui after the shit he did. If he really cares and loves Rui, he'll talk to him instead of going to someone to vent. That's just so dumb. He doesn't want to hurt Rui but went to someone else, which he CLEARLY knows will hurt Rui? LMAOOOOOOO. What logic is that... That's bullshit. He's afraid of letting Rui know his kinks but not afraid to cheat
I know he gave in because he's 'in love' with Rui, but I just DON'T understand WHY he gave in. Idk if you get what I mean... And I've been in love. I've had relationships. But I've never thought of doing it with other girls... I can never understand people's mindset of sleeping with other people because of some inconveniences or some lacking in sex with your lover. If the partner agreed, then sure. Just fucking talk it out.
He didnt sleep with the other guy though, he just beat him up. But I agree he should have talked to Rui about it.
And cheating is never ok but I dont really consider what he did as cheating because it wasnt sexual.
But reading all the comments there are people that think differently, at least he was wrong to lie about it and he shouldnt have first told Rui that he wouldnt do it and then do it anyway....
About giving in and why, I think it might be hard to resist. (I know for me it would be)
Dont get me wrong I dont think he is pitiful or in the right but I just think there is more to feelings than just black and white.
I know they didnt sleep together. I just used it as a comparison since 'play' is likee an equivalent of it in their verse anyway. And cheating doesn't have to be sexual... If you do something that betrays the trust or do something unexplainable shit with someone outside of your relationship, then it's def cheating (FOR ME cause I know some of you have different definitions and boundaries lol). Tho Ritsu himself admitted that he cheated.....And I dont know about some of you. But for me, there's nothing deeper to why he cheated or to anything happening to them right now... He did it because he wasn't satisfied, so I wont bother looking for other colors beyond black and white.
Tots agree with you :')
Nah, I wish Ritsu broke it off for real. Why did he gave in? I wish they had really broeken up. Then Rui could realize he doesn't need Ritsu at all and there's lots of dom out there who are not selfish...will prioritize their partner's feelings over desires, knows how to communicate and won't make him feel like shit.