Yep, unlike Anoni Girl and Berenice you GET it. Lucaon is a jerk, utterly and completely. And the only one who is responsible for his actions is HIM. Berenice and Anoni both seem to want to blame Kyon for Lucaon's actions. Which pretty much upholds the status quo. Something I thought BDSM was supposed to be AGAINST.... Ah, well.
I mean Anoni Girl does try to put a positive spin on things but at the same time they are making so-called weak characters responsible for the so-called stronger characters behavior. Which I find sad, as well.
I didn't say Kyon was responsible for Lucaon's actions. I said Kyon made choices and pursues his goals. There is a difference. No one deserves to be raped of abused, but in this fictional setting, Kyon chooses to pursue someone who wanted to push him away, and then Kyon stays with someone who raped him and who is abusive because it fits Kyon's goals. That doesn't make him responsible for the other's actions, just his own choices and actions. He is not powerless and he does pursue his own agenda.
I can't see to find the love in it. It seems so one-sided from Kyon's perspective, while Luacon is just using him for his hunter work and then simply just having VERY rough/rapish sex with him. The sex makes a mockery of Kyon's feelings, in my opinion. The first time seemed very scary and sad, just more mockery.
Honestly, I hope Luacon goes through several very painful hoops, or Kyon becomes an even stronger person and moves on.