Eh the only situation I remember the most honestly and that bothered me a lot was the cheating part, it was physical yes but still wrong and just no. I’m talking about Chunwoo fucking with the red head out of anger even though he is with Ho-in and forcing it on the red head as well even though redhead told him to stop.
I honestly hate him and I dislike that the seme forgave him so easily but whatever it’s not the worst that can happen and it’s fiction so it’s easy to look over it.
2) sorry! Just saw another spoiler from someone, I remember more now and understand better, so basically Chunwoo was self sabotaging himself when he told Ho-in the truth (fucked with redhead). And in side story apparently I hear he’s still regretful to this day but seme is very kind and assures him.
Honestly no one should be waiting for someone who’s back is turned to you, but this situation I can accept just cause it’s fucking fiction and now that I know that Chunwoo was hurting himself when he cheated physically.
Yeah personally I wouldn't condone cheating either in any form whatsoever. And it's perfectly fine to hate him for it. For me I was fine with the whole situation because Ho-in forgave Chunwoo, it showed how much he loves him and because even irl people can do literally anything and everything for the person they love, it's rare these days ig but it's possible. So that was one of the reasons I like this story. Also for what Chunwoo did, people make mistakes a lot, especially when they were angry and iirc what happened that chapter was briefly. And the fact that he's regretful, it's gonna haunt him for the rest of his life for sure. That's enough to feel bad for him.
At the end of the day, they're just idiots who are in love, and they get to experience strong emotions I actually wish to experience one day but also afraid of it. Ik I sound like an idiot myself lol
If this happened in real life, those who forgive the other person once, that other person will take advantage of your kindness and continue to hide cheating from you. That’s why it’s not acceptable in society, it’s not love if you purposely cheat and continue to do so. True love is hard to get nowadays, it depends on the commitment your heart can keep. But Chunwoo is an exception here because he quickly realized and snapped out of his anger, he did the sex because that’s how he and redhead always solved problems—by having sex, when he realized he didn’t hide it and quickly went to tell Ho-in.
People are free to hate on Chunwoo, but it’s unnecessary to spread hate knowing Chunwoo didn’t mean it. While I also don’t like Chunwoo, I don’t hate him. I hate what he forced on the redhead, it’s dub-con I know, but now that’s in the past.
If Chunwoo does it again cause of his insecurity etc, it’s time to end the relationship and call him a therapist cause free my boy Ho-in unless he wants to let himself be walked over like a doormat. Harsh but it’s the truth, I personally would feel so bad to see someone loving another who doesn’t love back as equally, so I want the best for Ho-in after what Chunwoo did without thinking. And I also want Chunwoo to have higher self esteem one day and be free from the guilt he’s living in (the guilt where he slept with redhead before going to Ho-in who was waiting for him).
Some of y'all are mad they got together and are so in love? Like hello!? Even at this point I cannot hate any of them (maybe except that ugly sunbae but idc about him lmao) because they all literally went through a lot of emotions that ig were hard for other ppl to comprehend?
Everything felt so real for me because they made mistakes and they struggled so hard to make it work eventually. It was so painful, it hurt so much for me too when puppy boy got hurt but it also pains me when sunbae was agonizing over what he did.
It's so easy to judge an action of somebody without a slightest effort of understanding.