No money for therapy so pls help out a brother

tiramisu October 6, 2023 3:50 pm

I embarrassed myself in a group discussion session at college today. I feel so fucking terrible about how people might think how much of a loser I am. I didn’t want to be there in the first place. It wasn’t a compulsory session. Someone else could’ve gone instead of me. But nobody was ready. Now my close friend from class i acting salty because they didn’t get a chance to speak. It’s not my fault but i feel terrible cuz they could’ve done so much better than me and I blew my chance. Idk how to fix this situation. How much ever i try to console the friend i feel like they’ll never take seriously how I feel about the whole situation. I have bad stage anxiety issues. But my friend is only looking at how i got a chance and im complaining about not doing well when they never got the chance in the first place

Responses
    Kash October 6, 2023 4:05 pm

    Just don't do anything.... The more u speak the more tangled it becomes..... It happened to me, a lot of people, too.... And just let them be cuz sometimes people get so emerged in their sorrow that they don't or maybe don't want to consider others feelings too.... Just ignore this moment for life or accept like so what if I'm a looser.... It is not a crime to be one,...... And after a while for instance weeks or months, if she is still salty then consider yourself lucky that u found a big red flag this early in your life.....
    And one time i remember this happened to me too so i ignored the situation and laughed alot with my siblings and later on spoke to her as I always did and later we both forgot abt it ..... Cuz, there comes a time even the closest frndz badmouth each other with no I'll feelings cuz this simple incidents r not something to consider yet by talking to others and showing others our angers calms us down bcz we consider friendship ......
    English is my 2nd language so i can't express myself.... But hope u get the idea....

    *Ariam* October 6, 2023 4:16 pm

    when you feel bad and anxious about what other people think about you , the people actually dont give a fck about you, nobody really cares. Normal people are usually busy with their own lives, and those who care a lot are usually pathetic themselves. So stop caring bro, forget the sht