
To give some perspective, in North America, Iām around a size 12~14/Large. In East Asia (China, Japan, Korea), Iāve bought clothes that were labelled size XXXXXL. Thereās really unhealthy body size standards and even if youāre thin, people you barely know will point out any weight gain and youāre constantly criticized for your weight.

In Korea being a little fat everyone just sees you as obese. They don't see that you can be fat and healthy. I'm a big guy myself, and the only time I visited there a few years back. I got tons of "wow you're so healthy/you look so healthy" mostly by girls and older women. That line in general is one of the most backhanded comments you can get, the healthy part is signifying that you're actually unhealthy and overweight.
Now my looks I'm pretty big and tall, and since I work out my body isn't an unhealthy fat. I get I'm not skinny, but to get those comments it was so demeaning since I myself thought I was healthy only to get welcomed like that by everyone. I can't imagine what girls have to go through it's so sad.
It was fucking horrible. At the time I got an ed and it took me a while to seek help. I'm glad my partner stayed with me through that. Korean standards are horrible and they're very close minded too.
in what world is he fat/plus size