so basically 10 years ago when he dated suha, DH was promiscuous and he made suha believe that he should participate in orgies because that's what he expects from a lover. and suha was naive so he did it thinking DH's happiness is enough for him(suha) but he actually just wanted to do it with DH which DH didn't like, so ultimately they broke up. now in the present, he did pull some bad stunts like drugging jiwoon and blackmailing suha, but suha ran away and nothing happened. there are speculations that the two guys who tried to assault jiwoon when he was drugged were sent by DH but it wasn't confirmed, it was assumed by suha. he also made him give a bj to him and youngwu by blackmailing him with a pic of yoon hui. also, he sneakily entered suha's place (actually jiwoon's) and tried to convince him to get back with him, but suha threw boiling water at him and then DH beat him up. that's all as far as i know.
to add on to his crimes: DH would coerce suha into doing these sexual activities (the orgies/sex in public places) when he very obviously didn’t want to do it nor was in the right headspace for it, which is rape on multiple accounts. he was also a very toxic, manipulative boyfriend, often using suha’s love for him as leverage and making him feel like he had no choice but to listen to all DH demands
um i know, you did a really good job and did explain most of it. i wanted to add on to you bc there was more things that made DH actions much worse. my reply wasn’t intended to one up you or be a know it all. i was only giving additional background info as well, especially to help OP have more context which is important for understanding the side story…
my response was mainly for OP bc i wasn’t sure if i should @ them or you, but i decided to @ you since it was only detailed info on in reply to what you already said- so it made more sense. like it wasnt a competition of who knows more, we were both helping and it was a neutral discussion
This Bear person has a hardon for the abusive dick. He manipulated Suha into sleeping with/being abused by his friends (lending him out), made him have sex with other people in a group setting, physically abused him, ect. Let's not forget violently assaulting him in the bathroom when they broke up. Emotionally, mentally, and physically abused Suha. So while this might not be "equal" karma, let's not downplay what he did to Suha either.
woah where did u make all these assumptions. were u wanting to argue or something? it doesn’t look like u read the entire thread, but bear wasnt trying to downplay DK nor say he deserved his own assault. this thread was about informing a reader about DK’s crimes and they said couldn’t remember the details bc that’s all they could recall from not rereading, hence them saying “that’s all as far as i know”. so because of this, i literally emphasized the parts about DK’s manipulation/abuse that was accidentally left out and made sure it was said in detail. not everyone can know off the top of their head every fact about a story so that’s why other readers can all join in to inform each other. instead of creating this whole bias against the replier who was trying to give assistance, you could’ve only stated the other information you wanted to add and carried on. like your reply looks so goofy because there was no reason to yap and yap but yet here u are yelling at a brick wall. so strange
@SJM the weirdo who starts arguments for no reason and can’t handle confrontation
i blocked u so u can have a taste of ur own medicine HAHA. like imagine asking a question and not wanting to hear an answer? sounds pretty familiar right (aka you). no one cares about what u said, i was basically pointing out how u killed the vibes. i didn’t know u had to be told this but u didn’t point out facts u created this whole fake story in that small delusional head of yours over nothing. this was literally an INFORMATION post??? not an opinion piece
so yea that’s a childish and coward thing to do silly goose, some of us like building community on here and answering questions while creatures like u start fights because they have nothing to do all day but fill their bird head brain with conflict. the voices in your head are a little too loud. im gonna unblock u so u can have your fun and feed whatever scenario is going on in that head of yours
idk what their problem was fr… i only replied bc i was confused on what SJM was even fighting about so i read the messages and it wasn’t even anything remotely close to what they claimed. it reminded me of the one twitter screenshot that goes
person a “i love waffles”
person b “so you hate pancakes and think they’re disgusting”
?? like excuse me. they got heated over the arguments going on in their own mind and can only say “cHiLdIsh”. i can’t even call SJM a kid bc it feels like an insult to kids
So… I came back to read the side stories but I don’t remember the bad deeds DH did… can someone remind me pls?