I'm leaving a like because you mentioned warehouse. I still believe both MC and ML there should undergo counseling but I love them both
That is my issue with a lot of boy love like this. Like warehouse and other horror I don't expect growth. No where do I Expect a relationship but it seems to be expected now that these tops are going to be terrible humans and then somewhere along the way he changes because he falls in love.
People can say it's fiction but I've seen it now too many times in boy love that it starts to worry me.
Warehouse is Stockholm syndrome, you can't compare it to Jinx.
Second note: I think Jk abused Dan not raped him. (my opinion).
Are you saying that a person can't improve?
Both are Stockholm Syndrome...he did both...and what improvement?????
no I’m saying he did rape him like girl, if not than it’s sexual coursion still like.
I’m not hating I just hate that people are trying to excuse his actions, it’s not that he can’t improve it’s that it doesn’t matter if he does, I feel the same about jae as I do for the main ml for legs which cannot walk that guy is shit and even if he’s getting better now after all the abuse he put the bottom through I don’t care he’s still abusive and it’s unhealthy for them to stay together
and like I said it’s my opinion he can change but I don’t give a shit he still sits on my list of the most toxic mls I ever did fucking see like I’m not acting like I hate this story I acknowledged I like a lot of messed up stories like dude my favorite bl is rose garden like hello???
I said I had an issue with people defending him like he’s a good person
good fucking day
edit the title of it is in to the rose garden and it’s an omegavers aristocrat fathead mate like duo shity alpha and omega (alpha marginally shittier) constant m preg this is a warning to the girlies who want to read that like that is actual rape fantasy to its fullest extent.
have fun if you read it HAHAH tell me abt your thoughts if you do HAHAHSJDJSKD
Nah fr! it’s not even a moral thing it’s a it’s so fucking played out trope already, if not a question of morality I ask it to change so it’s not the same story again, I’be dropped so much shit bec it just follows the same plot. Jinx is one of the few I still follow bec of the art and just
to see how much Jae can fucking turn me off at this point HAHAHA.
Cauliflower ear looking ass, horse dick having son of a bitch
Girl I luv you so much. This is the point no one tries to get. Whenever someone points it out they are only told to stop reading this webtoon like dude I'm reading this only to criticize it.
They baby Jaekyung like he's a lover boy. He's an abuser and a rapist,not some kinky,jealous and cute boy.
Its so scary that u had to compare this to a physiological horror dawg the author goin crazy with her ideas
Hey.
I don't know who you've seen defending his actions but you're probably misinterpreting it. And I think you're also using “I like Jaekyung because he's handsome” as defending his actions. Nope.
No one thinks it's right to treat Dan that way. No one should say it's okay to treat someone like that except if you're uneducated or a psycho.
They simply enjoy content like this, they enjoy the toxicity and it doesn't mean they are okay with something like this happening irl. Nope.
I feel you're misunderstanding what is going on because nobody is defending his actions at all. Absolutely no one. I haven't seen any comment like that. If there is, they're probably being sarcastic for real or they said it as a fetish kind of thing.
I don't also feel you should be worried because this is Mingwa, Jk will improve and he will regret and suffer for everything he did. The thing you have to accept is Dan being able to forgive him because he loves him. It's definitely gonna happen.
Omg rose garden, I cried so much…arghh. It was very emotional.
But yeah that’s all I'm saying.
Just wanna say, I don't think people defending Jk is being sarcastic. Most of them were like "if you don't like it don't read it" type of comments. I also saw some saying he's just a jealous person or something. No JK is not jealous. He's possessive. Which leads him to hurting Dan and continue the sexual abuse and power dynamics abuse.
Also, I don't think anybody here talks about anything irl. Hopefully nobody condone these things irl.
Educate yourself. Jinx can’t be Stockholm Syndrome. It is missing elements and has elements that prevents it to be SS. Seriously, dude!! Read more than one line or something.
it isn’t Stockholm Syndrome.
As we know, Stockholm Syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time. This condition applies to situations including child abuse, coach-athlete abuse, relationship abuse and sex trafficking
This isn’t the right type of relationship abuse and if you look at psychological causes, signs and symptoms this story doesn’t fit.
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/stockholm-syndrome/#:~:text=Some%20of%20the%20more%20common,documented%20in%20the%20research%20include%3A&text=Feeling%20closely%20bonded%20or%20attached,of%20the%20captor%20or%20abuser
It gives you 5 Examples of Stockholm Syndrome. None are close. 4 is the Stockholm syndrome abusive relationship. The abuse that causes Stockholm Syndrome isn’t there and there many elements that doesn’t allow to develop to Stockholm syndrome.
The original Beauty and the beast is Stockholm Syndrome but the Disney’s version isn’t. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1460&context=criterion#:~:text=The%20original%20Beauty%20of%20Beauty,syndrome%20have%20all%20but%20vanished.
Jealousy introduces possessiveness. There’s no way Jk isn’t jealous. The guy literally said Heesung should keep his hands off what’s his unless he would snap the guy’s neck in two. How is that not Jealousy?
“ Most of them were like "if you don't like it don't read it" type of comments.”
If they say that, does that mean they’re defending his abusive actions? They are simply giving good advice, how does saying that defend his actions?
Thank you! I was waiting looking for this♡.
Omg BOTH from legs that don't walk are terrible. Actually really liked season 1 but what the both of them did in season 2 it was so terrible.
This author is probably going to do what that author did and then in season 3 change their character nearly completely so that they could get together
No. Possessiveness is a stand alone feeling that doesn't require being jealous to be triggered. It's like when you have a favorite toy you like so much and you feel like you own it. If someone else tried to play that toy or at least touch it, you'd feel mad because they tried to touch your toy without your permission. They tried to get something that's yours. You don't feel jealous of them, you're just mad because that toy is yours and you don't want anyone else to have it.
Not saying that's what exactly what JK is feeling tho. I'm just saying possessiveness can be felt even without being jealous.
Also, people saying if you don't like it don't read may not be defending JKs actions, but they're brushing off people's concern abt JK being abusive. Tho I agree to them, I'm just explaining you what the OP meant when they said that.
You're also too hot on the replies, try to chill. People can have they're own opinions, unless they're stating facts. Possessiveness == Jealousy is actually a fact by the way
Yeah, but Jealousy can introduce Possessiveness. It can also trigger it, and I'm 100% sure Jk is jealous and possessive of Dan. Face it.
Anyway.
We're in 34 chapters and people are still complaining about the book? That's what's weird. Give your opinion, of course, sure you're free. But the point isn't that. To read a book, you should be able to predict a lot of things, and if you feel that isn't your preference you simply drop it, not that you give horrible opinions, ruining it for others that actually like the book. Even the comment section on TikTok and Instagram isn't as bad and toxic here. A user literally told a Jinx lover to go kill themselves. One was told to exterminate themselves. One was called foul words. A rape survivor was also attacked by the majority of these people. And now y'all complain that we're advising you to stop reading the book if you don't like it? Uh no…never gonna happen.
We all can identify what Jk does. But we see it as a source of entertainment. Their assumptions are whack. You shouldn't judge anyone like that for advising about you not reading the book.
How am I too hot on the replies? Thanks for the compliment though…I get that a lot.
"No JK is not jealous. He's possessive. "
https://www.differencebetween.com/difference-between-jealous-and-vs-possessive/#:~:text=Jealous%20means%20you%20are%20upset,of%20the%20person%20who%20matters.&text=You%20are%20jealous%20when%20it%20is%20your%20friend%20or%20brother,ahead%20of%20you%20in%20life.&text=Possessive%20means%20undue%20liking%20for%20things%20you%20feel%20you%20own.&text=Possessiveness%20leads%20to%20jealousy%20in%20a%20relationship.
"What is the difference between Jealous and Possessive?
• Jealous means you are upset about another person getting attention, respect, or love of the person who matters.
• You are jealous when it is your friend or brother who gets ahead of you in life.
• Possessive means undue liking for things you feel you own.
• Possessiveness leads to jealousy in a relationship.
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"Jealousy breeds suspicion, doubt, and mistrust, which can snowball into pretty intense emotions and behaviors, he says. We may become preoccupied with the fear of betrayal. We might start checking up on our friend or partner constantly, trying to “catch them.” We might become possessive of that person"
https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/what-your-jealous-feelings-are-telling-you-what-you-should-ncna1002411
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-28/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-29/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-38/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-42/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-44/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-173484/pg-53/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-175028/pg-3/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jinx/uu/br_chapter-175028/pg-4/
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"Your jealousy can show up as various behaviors, such as withdrawing from situations or bad-mouthing others. "
https://psychcentral.com/health/signs-of-jealousy#recap
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If taken too far, possessiveness can become a serious issue that leads to other relationship problems. Among them include jealousy, abuse, paranoia, or stalking. It’s important to recognize the signs of possessiveness in a relationship and know when it’s taking a bad turn.
Possessiveness is fundamentally a fear of loss. Possessive people worry that their partners will leave them. This creates feelings of fear, anger, and sadness
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-possessiveness#:~:text=Possessiveness%20is%20fundamentally%20a%20fear,and%20can%20be%20counted%20on.
Possessiveness often stems from insecurities related to attachment styles. People with attachment anxiety tend to have a negative view of themselves and a positive view of others. They worry that their partners can’t be trusted. They have a chronic fear of rejection.
My last reply, NOT ONE WORD was mine. it was all facts and the story but one sentence was your. It is clear JK is jealous. His jealousy, him feeling rejected, and must protect dan lead to his wrong behavior in chapter 34 due to his chronic fear of rejection and his insecurities in himself since he is that possessive. Dan has never been a toy to JK, Look deeper. I find it sickening how many try to excuse their treat on people including a rape survior for opinions on a book. They try to make attacking a rape survior, a book. I could less about the someone false interpretions that leads them to thinking someone is defending Jk an ficition actor as they defend the people who attacked a real rape survior. NOT say this is the op but most that complains are like this. We don't need it explained to us as we know they are just complaining and being hyocrites. They don't really care or they would attack real people. This OP has attacked real people.
On other note:
People writes different we are all different. Stop trying to control people because they are different from you. "Chill' is controlling as it leads to suppression and causes people to be defensive. You are falsely interpreting someone messge for your selfish gain to feel superior and invalidation of someone's feelings or/and opinions. Hate to suppress others is not an opinion.
Stop trying to control others.
Gen I think some of you are kinda missing the point on the people kinda yelling in chaos abt this. Like as a human who managed to stomach no reason, obey me and like warehouse. Babes those brutal ass bl’s never expected to forgive the Ml’s and Imm pretty sure the author expects us ti forgive Jae at the end of this.
Like I’m not even trying to be a hater I’m being so gen to my girlies who’s first bl is this pls to all God bdsm relationships are not like this period point blank.
Most doms are the kindest softest people in the world to you because they value your safety, and I can’t lie the misrepresentation of BDSM dynamics in bl drives me mad.
You can like the bl but don’t stand there delusional that Jae is fucking improving, he started a rapist and still is a rapist- there is actually no amount of improvement he can gain for a lot of people to forgive him, pretty big majority of the readers read this as a hope that dan gets saved thing at this point.
Gen ya’ll stop defending Jae like it’s maddening, he is not a sad boy, he is not just kinky horny, he’s fucking gross human and just embrace it, liking wildly insane shit is fine but don’t package your opinion in “if you don’t like it than don’t read it” the same way you can voice your opinion on the trash horse that is Jae, we can voice the fact that he is fucking disgusting, because we all have to admit we got in to bl young and got some fucked up images of romance and love from them because majority are horny messes (i.e. Jinks) like admit your here for the fucking and enjoy his toxicity don’t try to delude yourself to ay he’s getting better.
thank you if you read till the end bye bye
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