i understand being angry at yuri but..

Exactly, people need to realize losing a parent let alone both is beyond traumatic to a child. He's been on his own for years not being able to open up. Also, did you see where the new guy said lover? That's very messed up and I'm really wondering where that's gonna go since he has a gf and she's been bullying jaerim. idk all of it is building up and it just gets me more and more worried >.<

yes, yes !!! you're absolutely right, i feel upset when i see a lot of people in the comment section blaming everything on yuri, he has his own problems too but the story itself is from jaerim's point of view. i don't know how to express everything but only a yes, you're right :)))

OK the new boy, I saw some tip, I think I saw him violence jearim. And what you talking not wrong but you know what it didn't mean he can take everything to someone who care for him this much, even he got hurt a lot of time he still came back for the one he love no matter, how hurt it is to push away again and, he just want to know what they are doing or how is he. If it that hard and that hurtful just told jearim that he don't need him he doesn't need to concern for him anymore. He don't have to make jearim suffering this much crying alone like crazy. I used to has this experience too it to hard to breathing just to think that I'm not the who he need to share their heart........ I'm sorry to say this but this last chapter really make me remembered the one I used to love so much but in the end I choose to walk away when i know I'm not the one for him .....

I love you for going in detail. People just don't understand and blindly blame Yuri and accept the new guy going after Yuri. I couldn't agree with you more mate.
YURI X JAERIM FIGHTING!

Being traumatised or having your own problems is NOT a freepass to be an asshole, which Yuri became. Just because he's having it hard doesn't mean Jaerim doesn't deserve to protect his own well being. Truth is, Yuri makes no effort to open himself up. Right now he doesn't consider Jaerim as an equal partner in a mutual relationship. Jaerim has every right to cut toxic people out of his life, and if Yuri is being a toxic person and a horrible lover, he can be cut out too.

where the new guy said lover ?

Yeah. ıts ok to push everyone at some point , your dearests will understand sooner or later . but yuri turing into a complate stanger even for a moment did boke my heart . I just wonder when will yuri get over this and how . And ı cant stop thinking if that liar bastard did give a help to yuri and jearim about their relationship , even a single conversation would be far more than ok , jearim wouldn't be that miserable

I beg to disagree.. His past doesnt give him a right to treat Jaerim like that. Look just how much Jaerim loves him and makes an effort to understand him, to be there for him. But Yuri completely shuts Jaerim off. Like jaerim is a total stranger. Jaerim is hurting and crying and bawling his eyes out because Yuri refused to open himself to his LOVER is what pissing me off. It's unfair!!!! I'm considering Yuri's trauma and past but still looking Jaerim crying like that at the end, i just couldnt accept it. He doesnt have to pushed Jaerim away like that. It hurts you know when a positive and persistent and cheerful guy like Jaerim finally broke down coz of his lover. After all, the one who tried to close the distance between them is Jaerim not Yuri. But i just hope they settle this soon or im gonna lose my shit.

So agree with you!

I think so to!! to push away again and again it not an easy for anyone to to backup forever ,and no one can accept the wound that much. It will end once day no matter what. That what I feel pain to o.

That what I have talking about..

no one said that it was a freepass to be an asshole, because it isn't, and anyone who says it is is wrong. but i don't? think yuri is being an asshole? or toxic, as a matter of fact. he's just someone who doesn't know how to cope with pain and lashes out because of that. what it seems to me is that he's reverting back to how he was in the beginning of the manhwa—more closed off, cold, irritable. and about the opening up thing, like i said, it's not an easy thing to do when you've gone your whole life never having known what it's like to do that. sometimes you don't even know where to begin, or even how. but regardless, i agree with you about jaerim having the right to cut him out of his life. if yuri is causing him too much emotional stress then yeah, he does has every right to do that.

Of course it's not, there;s never an excuse to demean your spouse but did you see his eyes? and how he snapped out of it? It's like he was in complete panic mode and I honestly don't think he was in his right mind. I think he has a lot of trauma that people are ignoring when the truth is if you have anxiety/depression (which is obvious that he has) you do exactly what he's doing: lashing out/saying things you don't mean, being irritable/violent, closing yourself off so completely because you want to handle it yourself even though no matter how much you think it helps it's really destroying relationships. I'm not trying to excuse him i'm just saying it's not uncommon for him to behave this way. Jaerim has every right to cut him out but he won't because he loves him. I think he does consider him an equal partner, if he didn't then there's no way he would've tried so hard to get with jaerim. He was in panick mode when he said jaerim was ugly you could easily tell by the way he snapped out of it and that is the only reason I even considered forgiving him for saying that. It was a horribly sad chapter. Again though, yuri doesn't know HOW. He said so himself he's never had anyone to open up to, he's handled everything on his own, so how do you expect him to open up when they've barely been dating that long? He needs a solid foundation first and they don't have that yet.

Chapter 71 page 37. This was when jaerim was on the swing and then the mystery dude saw him left then came back with first aid supplies.
Jaerim "I wish they'd get blurry just to the point where I could make out your face"
Mystery handsome dude who's name escapes me- "Wow~ are you touched? Have you never had a lover before, Jaerim? I mean can't believe you're touched by something as small as this~ hehe."
then it keeps going but I don't wanna type it all haha

I'm definitely agree with you. I was trying to understand Yuri but this went over the line

The fuck dude? I'm not even that shallow to compare two different people based on outer appearance. It's like when one twin did something really horrible to you and your also going to be an asshole to the other twin who was innocent. Yuri's point of view is pretty shallow. Yuri just because some ugly guy did something horrible to you in the past you can't hold that against every new ugly guy you meet. "Ohhhh yea I have PTSD and you fucking need to understand why I'm treating you ugly guys coldly"

If he's so hurt why pursue anything with Jaerim? Especially when Jaerim did not return his feelings in the first place....How can you expect to make someone fall in love with you and then expect them to not interfere in your life? How you live your life is your business but making someone fall in love with you and dumping them bcoz their worried about you........selfish and better off single until they resolve it themselves...how about that?