I mean... The Mafia world is pretty Fucked up and you're complaining abt it...? I suggest you go to another theme. Go find some farming centered yaoi stories. Most mafia themed ones are going to be fucked up yanno.
Deliverance of the counterattack
If you don't mind the cliche cnovel revenge setting. The couple is minimally toxic? Least ducked mafia that I can think of. Then again, the mafia aren't the focus.
Yellow
Totally captivated
I think these are more tame compared to newer ones, esp with regards to violent sex. Downsides are that they're slightly older and my memories might be inaccurate.
hmm you can try this one https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/can_a_gangster_leave_the_gang/ its a green flag and its short so you can read all of it in one hour.
the first one is fucked up though lol since they weren't asking for anything toxic.
Can anyone plz recommend some good yaoi mafia manga that is out there? Cause as far as in have stumbled upon all of them are mostly f*cked up.