Am I the only one that doesn't really vibe with this kind of trope? Most of the time stori...

Am I the only one that doesn't really vibe with this kind of trope? Most of the time stories where mc gets with their late brother partner it feels iffy to me, especially when they knew each other for a long time like this one, shouldn't you be treating him like a brother in law if you knew he was dating your brother? I know they're grieving and have to move on and deserve to be happy but but it still feels weird to me or maybe idk I'm the weird one lmao. Also not to be a bitch but the fact that the younger bro gets a chance to date uke just because the older bro died is both sad and stupid to me like you'd want to support him because he was basically family, not because you want to chase after his ass what do yall think?