Oh god, nothing happened with this did it? I will seriously go down on all the people who help this get translated and uploaded. Please please please please please. Please?
My main motivation to learn Japanese, to read ALL the yaoi. Hahaha. I'm actually not kidding. ;/
There's not exactly rules (since it's illegal lmao) but there is internet etiquette surrounding it... basically it's rude to scanlate something someone else is scanlating is the main one and it used to be that once something got licensed in English people would usually stop scanlating, but most people ignore that now seeing with how many licensed webtoons are screenshotted and uploaded
I don't really know about yaoi otaku specifically.. I rarely used their forums except years ago to check for a few titles. I think raw uploaders would probably say "ask before translating" or "do not translate" if they wanted some sort of contact, but if they don't it's probably chill? But to be sure you could always send them a message before you tried translating, I don't think it would hurt anything.
On myreadingmanga I think people just kinda download without messaging anyone because usually there's no one to message for the raw files, and I think here on mangago if there are raws uploaded it's either fair game or someone's already translating it.
Official manga/webtoon/comic distribution sites (both English and jpn/kr/chn) I think always say it's against the rules and illegal to reload/reproduce/translate/etc but people do it anyways, it's often harder though because you have to work around their anti-download and anti-screenshot coding
i got them!!!!! i got all the raws!!!!! there're totally 194 pages. i have them as JPG files. I can send u via email. Anyone who knows Japanese pls help us translate it!!!!!!! im dying! i wanna know what gonna happen next! pls help!