question is... are you OK?
“rape and sexual assault are still taking advantage of someone through power and sex.” Unnecessary. Lol
“every time you bring up rape and sex you get it wrong.” Lol Go correct all the websites I use to your own definition. I am sure the legal world would want to know how they got it wrong.
“I know I am way more educated than you on this subject” No genuine/ Good faith person would say this. My brother is a lawyer. I am quoting websites. You want to feel superior because you know you are wrong. Lol. Did you think you would get me mad? Did you think that through? If I am quoting websites— how stupid can you get? Thanks for laughing. You are hilarious!
“bc this man has not only raped Dan,” your delusions
“but has beaten his own gym members to a pulp as stated in the chapter where he offers Dan to spar with him.” I have to check it out. I don’t trust haters. But is this meant to do something? I think I know ….. If you are honest for once, what part are you saying you are having issues with in this sentence. “there is no rape in jinx but it is SA and abusive.”
“could go on and on,”. You are
“ but no matter what I say you seem to always have a hard-on for this fictional rapists. “. Personal attack and you have no clue about me. Stop the abusive behavior. L
“ I’ll keep calling him a rapist (bc he is)”. You can but he is not.
“”and I'll keep calling you insane bc you are lmao.”
No I am normal and sharing facts. You are triggered on facts. When you judge others, you don’t define them, you define yourself. You are defined yourself.
So in you have mislabeled a character and mislabeled me( a personal attack) call I do them same? Can I?
You are inbred.
What you don’t like it. Why do it?
Why judge me?
1. It Helps Us Feel Superior
Tearing other people down is one the most common ways people prop themselves up. By judging others harshly, we compare ourselves to them and feel superior. Compared to their lives, their behavior, they’re physique, we look pretty good!
2. It Uncovers Our Own Faults
More often than not, we are bothered by the qualities of others that we choose not to see in ourselves. We ridicule, judge and shame another’s habits, appearance or lifestyle choices because they are the very ones we dislike in ourselves. For those lacking in self-awareness and insight, they don’t even realize this is the case.
3. It Makes Us Feel Part of a Group
https://arcadiancounseling.com/why-we-judge-others-how-to-stop/#:~:text=It%20Helps%20Us%20Feel%20Superior,physique%2C%20we%20look%20pretty%20good!
I am sharing the truth of the story. Your pov is rape. The story pov is isn’t rape. They are not disagreeing with me they disagreed with a story.
Story: Hey I am not incest.
You: it is incest.
Me: the story’s pov it isn’t incest
You: it is incest you are insane. I am more educated than you.
Me: I am not the story. You are attacking me and disagreeing with the story.
You are the one part of the herd mentality, you tell me. We are only reacting to your stupid claims and personal attacks.
I giggle when people start bringing in statistics and research into their being a keyboard warrior. Like, nothing in these two-bit BL stories constitutes bringing a fucking Harvard-level study into this lol. Jae is 100% an abuser and the only reason why some of these types on here don't see it as rape is bc the author is trying to sugarcoat the crimes being committed against Dan and making it dubious to blur noticeable lines of what it actually is, Sexual Assault. Pont blank.
Also, commenters can bring up how " valid" sa fetishes are, which is ok ig but the fact that this author is putting a gay relationship into such a heteronormative frame and has a track record of forming these relationships abusive first, normal later is the actual conversation that should be had, not trying to prove objective shit wrong lol.