Are we forgetting about the random guys the seme would beat up that looked like the uke at...

Are we forgetting about the random guys the seme would beat up that looked like the uke at the start of the manga??? Coz I feel like that’s a pretty important character trait we glossed over

Also people saying this story is trash- it is very realistically toxic. I doubt the author intended it but this mentally exhausting relationship is something I’ve seen like 10x in real life