I meeeaan, he's not "bad" even now. Yes he's sadistic and he may be a red flag.. but everything he did was consensual and he DID warn him several times before doing anything. If it was me, I would've never accepted the job. But if I did, it wouldn't have been right for me to nag so much. You know what I mean? ( ̄へ ̄)
I get your point. And if it was me I'd never ever get involved with this jerk. But to be fair, he said his tastes were different and painful multiple times. And also he backed down a couple of times in the middle of the thing to warn him again, and all of those times the guy said he could do it.
I'm not trying to romanticise sadism, but he DID get consent multiple times.
There is no such thing as consent when it's you boss who is asking for sex in return for allowing you to comfortably work. Sorry I don't understand why you don't see the exploitative power play. There is no respect in their play. No conversation, safe words, safe exploration to see what your partner might like/not like. This is just abuse. The uke is having sex as a means to an end cause he doesn't know what else to do. Even prostitutes have rules to keep themselves safe.
Yeah it's called adulthood. You get a deal, you agree to the terms, and you don't back out.
He wasn't his boss in the first place. He became his boss, because the guy accepted the offer KNOWING that he has to have hardcore sex that he won't enjoy.
About the safe word, I agree with you. There should've been a safe word. But on the other hand, the seme himself stopped a couple of times that noticed it's too much for the uke.
All I'm saying is that the guy is a red flag and he is so toxic indeed, but the uke is not HIS victim. He's someone else's victim and because of that he panics in bed. He had a lot of chances to back out, he can still do it if he wants to.
I read the raws, the seme isn't as bad as we thought. No spoiler though.