No abuse victims usually get it. It’s a lot more complicated then that. You’re in love with someone whose not always awful. So you delude yourself that things can change. I haven’t started this yet but it sounds like the seme is a sociopath or something. Usually abusers aren’t always awful. There’s times where things are good and you think maybe it’ll last this time. Also there’s the abuse victims own issues. Like low self esteem. There’s also some low key brainwashing and gaslighting. Like you know what they’re doing is to much but you belive you’re also wrong. Like I said it’s complicated. I’m conflicted on whether to read this. I’m dumb for a shitty seme, but he has to change by the end, like there has to be some accountability & actual remorse for their previous behavior.
Character like the Seme is usually a villain or side character in other manhwa but here he's the male lead. I genuinely question what the author was thinking when they created him.