Agreed 100%. Like, this scene with the toy... Mmm i do wonder what the conversation was like when Dan agreed to it. Did he agree to keep it in until they got there even if he begged? From my experience and knowledge, there is that type of play where you keep playing even if you beg especially to just orgasm or to keep you from having an orgasm. There does have to be safe words of course, but many times it's okay as long as it's with consent.
Also, I do wonder if Dan would have removed it, how would JK would have reacted? If he was to be angry and start forcing himself on him like NOOOO HUGE (red flag). Otherwise, if he just were to be disappointed I don't see it as an asshole move. Idk, this chapter may have been questionable for some but I'm trying to see the overall picture to analyze our top here.... Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)
it’s almost been one year since this book, and not even a smidge of character development it’s gonna be 2030 by the time we see him be nice to dan LMAO