Sigh

Arslan September 9, 2023 8:43 am

Reached chapter 42 and all I can say is that I'm really disappointed. I thought that their first time would be something special and at consensual not r*pe, I guess the r*pe thing is becoming a real cliché and it really makes me uncomfortable, what do you guys think about this ??

Responses
    the077 September 9, 2023 9:00 am

    tbh im pretty disappointed and superrr uncomfortable w caesar's way of showing love (it's not just him, leewon too, they're messed up) but as i read further i understand that their ways to convey love is different (uncommon but just know that the love is there),, im not expecting something sweet because he's a criminal ffs,, idk bout u but i love them as a couple

    Bokutobae September 9, 2023 9:35 am
    tbh im pretty disappointed and superrr uncomfortable w caesar's way of showing love (it's not just him, leewon too, they're messed up) but as i read further i understand that their ways to convey love is differ... the077

    This was said in such a respectful way. Thank you! Can I copy this for when I need to respond to someone who only thinks love is supposed to be all sweet and sugary for it to be called love?

    toilet terrorist September 9, 2023 10:36 am
    This was said in such a respectful way. Thank you! Can I copy this for when I need to respond to someone who only thinks love is supposed to be all sweet and sugary for it to be called love? Bokutobae

    Healthy love isnt supposed to be sweet and sugary but it definetly is not whatever is going on with leewon and ceasar. They're not real people, had they actually been real people, lock ceasar up and throw away the key. Love doenst involve rape, if it does its not love but abuse and violence.

    toilet terrorist September 9, 2023 11:01 am

    Yeah i was disappointed too, before Ceasar was respectful (for a mafia boss) and didn't force Leewon into much things sexual. The rape was random and it was never addressed further, like it never happened, which is annoying. What Ceasar did to Leewon isn't a form of or a way to express his love, it was a dehumanising, disgusting, humiliating act of violence. I think the story overall is good, well structured and interesting but the rape was unnecessary and the story would've been better off without it. Do take a second to think though, Ceasar is a mafia boss, he has definetly done way worse than rape. This isnt a justification at all, the rape was totally cliché and stupid but, it was a way to show that Ceasar is not a good person at all. Its important to keep in mind that hes a rapist but i just gaslight myself into thinking it never happened and Leewon just had a huge nightmare because eveyone in the story acts like it never occured. This whole need to add rape into a story in BL is starting to fade but i dont think its gonna leave anytime soon, time will tell.

    the077 September 9, 2023 11:13 am
    This was said in such a respectful way. Thank you! Can I copy this for when I need to respond to someone who only thinks love is supposed to be all sweet and sugary for it to be called love? Bokutobae

    sure,, idm

    Arslan September 9, 2023 11:30 am
    tbh im pretty disappointed and superrr uncomfortable w caesar's way of showing love (it's not just him, leewon too, they're messed up) but as i read further i understand that their ways to convey love is differ... the077

    Hmmm I think so too, I mean what would you expect from someone who's a mafia his whole life but still!!!!! And I love them as a couple too and I feel that I do love eachother it's just that they don't know how to express it and that's why they need to frigging communicate !!!

    Arslan September 9, 2023 11:32 am
    This was said in such a respectful way. Thank you! Can I copy this for when I need to respond to someone who only thinks love is supposed to be all sweet and sugary for it to be called love? Bokutobae

    Well, I don't think love needs to be all sugary and all, it just needs communication I guess and a lot of caring hehehe

    Arslan September 9, 2023 11:35 am
    Yeah i was disappointed too, before Ceasar was respectful (for a mafia boss) and didn't force Leewon into much things sexual. The rape was random and it was never addressed further, like it never happened, whic... toilet terrorist

    I think that your analytic comment is the best one !!!!! Exactly what I had in mind !!!! Thank u!!