the "men being pathetic" list is the epithome of this trope:
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/2465806/
also I think, 'he fell first but he fell harder" has the best depiction of this trope:
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/2487897/
Here are a few recs:
1. Sissy
2. Black lotus
3. Replacement
4. Kiss me, Liar
5. Hina wa Mitsuiro no Koi ni Torawareru
6. Final Stop
7. Unscented Trajectory
8. Drunk In Love
9. 10 years where I loved you the most
10. Almond o Nanatsubu
11. Hogu Hagyeongsu
12. Ex-Husband Wants To Marry Again
13. Dare To Touch My Potato Again?
14. Don't Want To See You In The Next Life
15. Reversal
BL where seme chases uke after realizing his feelings for him? hopefully it's already finished. THANK YOUUUU!!! :D