i would’ve never stepped up if it was just ONE IDIOT but here you fucking go.
btw sarcastic bitebacks would just say you’re a loser. come at me.
Thank you for your passionate comment. I don't hate you for your point of view. Its just different then my own and that is ok. In your eyes a stranger or police is a dumb idea but self harm, abuse and being quiet about it is better. You said he was protected in his environment by friends and family but he did not choose any of them to talk to about this or did he find them unreliable. Some thing was a miss in there relationship that is why he didn't call on them. Victim do call out for help, but is the other people paying close enough attention to pick it up the signals. You said the damage has been done, so it's better to continue to do nothing to just endure not to fight against the grain. I am sorry if I offended you because my view is different then yours. My parent told me growing up don't let people walk on you and to ask for help when I need it.
yeah, i knew you’d respond sarcastically and play victim in this just because you got called out. my view is “different” from yours isn’t it? and you wanted me to respect that. it’s so simple and yet you couldn’t do it to other people so why should i to you?
self harm is a traumatic response that is in no way in the victim’s control. that’s why we have mental institutions and specialized doctors for that specific case.
obviously, abuse is not okay. did YW abused someone? it’s the other way around isn’t it. why should the victim be blamed for being abused? did he asked for it? the only problematic people here are the bullies, bystanders, and enablers like you. your parents should’ve taught you to learn basic manners before spouting your dumb mantras here.
you said “[some] victims do call out for help” so i’ll assume you’re using a general term for real people who experienced bullying. i take it that by this, you mean, people like YW are not ‘victims’ just because they had a very different views from you?
funny how you called for mommy and daddy here. what should i do if they told you this and that? lolol we have a self-centered and a buffoon here. are you a messiah? please save all the victims of bullying by preaching that in your class gc or smth and maybe even the dead will come smiling down at your bravery.
There is no need for you to repsond I am not interested in your thoughts anymore. First I wasn't being sarcastic but if you found that I wa that means you have a chip on your shoulder so i won't get anything valuable from our exchange. Another thing this is a story and we all can voice out opinions. No one attacked you, called you any names or addressed you in a negative manner. However, you have done all of that. Enabler, because I don't agree or see like you. Aren't you the Bully. Maybe you should look closer at yourself. No one is saying he is not a victim and what happened to him wasn't bad, but he didn't exhaust all his options. There is no need for me to chat with again.
lol don’t tell me what to do in my own thread. i don’t care whether you’ll respond again or not since frankly, you’re not ready for any of this discussion.
and you just called me a bully. don’t kid yourself. if i’m a bully, why don’t you report me to the police or tattle to a stranger. why are you not doing anything????
this proves the fact that not everyone is entitled to their own opinion. educate your children guys.
Firstly good for you that you were raised with care and reliabled parents but still you miss the point. You said if it were you, you would fight them back or ask for help because your parents taught you so BUT THIS ISN'T JUST ABOUT YOU Not every single person were raised the same way so you can't put yourself as the center and judge others harshly by your perspective only!! That' why we, people have to have EMPHATHY You have to understand their situation and their backgroud so you can gasp the situation Before you say anything especially in this sensitive situation, I would like you to be MORE CAREFUL and THINK more about other feeling Otheriwse DON'T SAY IT! if you can't think of something good Sometimes words are sharper than knives so You have to be careful and have more emphathy toward others It's not alright at all if you continuing these kind of thinking Your way of saying this it's harsh, cruel, lacked of emphathy and show how senseless you are Rethink about it or the better
PREACHH ppl down the comments lack common sense omg. There are so many mental complications for victims to reach out for help. For yeonwoo help is available but he has too low self-esteem but obv thats not his fault
Thank you so much for saying what we all want to say but in an articulate manner because this is infuriating.
in which chapter was it stated that yeonwoo valued his pride more than his salvation from all this? oh my fucking god this post made me infuriated more than EVER but I'll break it down for you for the sake of the people that are going to come across your bull.
first, yeonwoo is a middle schooler. second, yeonwoo and junhyuk were childhood friends and their codependent relationship started with that. third, yeonwoo is a coddled child due to his weak constitution. endpoint? the only people he ever knew were overprotective people who watched out for him. while these people truly cared for yenwoo, they had a play in everything, junhyuk who went to school with yeonwoo is suffering from this fact, although he took it in another angle (by feeding into their codependence).
the parents' behavior henceforth is a big giveaway that YW and JH never spoke about this to them, but i hold every adult within YW's parameters in this webtoon accountable. the boy was fucking screaming to be saved by his parents IN THEIR HOME. there were many signs. YW is known to be a sweet kid, but they brushed off his little outbursts as YW simply going thru puberty because it was so much easier to think that way. some parents don’t wanna admit their child is mentally unstable. for YW's parents, i guess it would be negligence, they placed too much trust in his relationship with JH. YW might've never opened up about the fact that they don't stick around each other as much.
disc: the parents are nice people to the core, but being a parent is a ridiculously hard job. i hope this gets cleared out in the story.
now, the variables you posited, "police" and "stranger", has got to be one of the dumbest fucking thing you came up with. this is why research is important and freeloaders like you should not be let out of school. did you INTENTIONALLY left out the school's dean? the class adviser? these are full grown adults and had the most access to high authorities. YW and this other dude reached out to them first because even they know this, and what did the bully get? a good old scolding to say they did something. this school dean berated YW for being born with a pretty face and said that having your private part grabbed without his consent is just a 'boys being boys'. without any hand in it, that big glob of flesh is as guilty as the perpetrator, if not more. the school fucking literally accepted a boy who drove someone to commit suicide.
PRESENT TIME - a traumatized person might escape from the place or person physically (school, bully) but the damage has been done! why do you expect YW to suddenly step up and gun it down with the bully all of a sudden? and why would YW have HIS GIRL gun it down with a person he's scared shitless of?
if you still don't get it, let me spell it to you, YW's and every victims out there who couldn't bring themselves to just fuck it were, at one point, tossed to die by their environment (YW's school). you wouldn't be able to grasp the magnitude of how these people drew courage from just that one meeting. i don't know you but god i hate you.