I hate Jaekyung but I love him in silent

Thug_Nagisa August 25, 2023 4:49 am

I know they were setting this up as seeing if Jaekyung will show any jealousy or not but I feel like at the pace the story is moving, it’ll be a loooooong time before that. My prediction is that it’ll prob not result in anything besides Jaekyung getting mad at Dan accusing him of wanting to spread his booty cheeks for other men if they got the money (which isn’t wrong tbh) and say Dan is his property or whatever toxic bs

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    spookyeggshell♡ August 25, 2023 5:28 am

    I think so too but maybe with Heesung now introduced, Dan could get into a relationship with him and Jaekyung could realize what he lost and make a total 180? Kinda like in BJ Alex. Asshole seme -> sweet and caring seme?? Tho Jaekyung is a total dickhead and I don’t want him to end up with Dan :(

    Tmsmyz August 25, 2023 6:00 am

    JK is ALREADY be showing jealousy.
    What story are you two reading??
    But the wanting Dan to get with Heesung who appears to be love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative) and not wanting to be with JK, and the long time not to see jealousy and Dan is his “property” and “Jaekyung getting mad at Dan accusing him of wanting to spread his booty cheeks for other men if they got the money”
    Has me thinking this is just bad biased hate reviews on JK. Have you tried to read the story without your biases?

    spookyeggshell♡ August 25, 2023 6:14 am
    JK is ALREADY be showing jealousy. What story are you two reading?? But the wanting Dan to get with Heesung who appears to be love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative) and not wanting to be with JK, and t... Tmsmyz

    I was thinking that he was showing jealousy ofc just that it seemed more childish and less “romantic” (as in it had romantic intent behind it). Also Heesung is completely love bombing I just have such a hard time recognizing that
    My take was so bad dw about it, it’s like 2AM

    toilet terrorist August 25, 2023 12:55 pm

    @Tmsmyz youre the one clearly being biased here, you state all Heesungs issues but are literally saying nothing about Jaekyung in that statement. You do realise that Jaekyung is the worse option here, choosing between two evils everyone is gonna pick the lesser . I get what youre saying about Jaekyung being jealous though, its sorta obvious that hes being possessive about Dan in front of Heesung already and in general. Like when Dan helped out another member with his arm or something and Jaekyung was just staring. Maybe people have a hard time telling cause it doesnt show his thoughts or sum

    Bivhh August 25, 2023 1:50 pm

    Tmsm has a lot to say about Heesung but nothing about Jaekyung? You think he isn’t everything you called Heesung? Seems like someone has a favourite and is biased. Maybe read the story again without being biased. :)

    Tmsmyz August 25, 2023 3:44 pm
    I was thinking that he was showing jealousy ofc just that it seemed more childish and less “romantic” (as in it had romantic intent behind it). Also Heesung is completely love bombing I just have such a har... spookyeggshell♡

    There are different types of jealousy. At the moment his type of jealousy has been normal. It has been healthy. Jealousy doesn’t mean love or romantic as jealousy can be harmful and mean the person is controlling. Jealousy can be from low self esteem too. But it could had positive effects too. https://www.wikihow.com/Is-Jealousy-a-Sign-of-Love

    Are you hoping for an unhealthy form of jealousy from JK to prove his love?

    Tmsmyz August 25, 2023 4:00 pm

    To the cyber stalkers: Toilet and Bivhh.
    First I said “ the wanting Dan to get with Heesung who appears to be (a) love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative)
    Those three words describes a love bomber, not Heesung. I said Heesung appeared to be one. I didn’t call him one. Learn English.

    Let’s pretend I did state that about Heesung which is it true. Why should I list JK’s which is known and clear by now from 31 chapters. Have you, cyber stalkers, harassed me on repeat myself over and over again. Why should I have to keep repeating knowing points you know all too well? You chose to harass me here and ignore that fact and ignore the fact that not many people are picking up on Heesung’s red flag behavior from one chapter vs 31 chapters. Oh my sweet summer children, you are making invalid arguments and making yourself look biased.
    We don’t know much about Heesung to say which is better. To claim he is better after one chapter of seeing his abusing behavior is biased. You know what you are getting with JK and he is probably the better man here because Toilet is blind to his true character.
    Bivhh I only said he appeared to a love bomber and described a love bomber. I didn’t have a lot to say about Heesung. You showed you are after me. You have been told. I am not defending JK. I don’t even like him. I don’t have biases. You showed you do here. I have read the story carefully without being biased. You should try it. You should read my comments without being biased and maybe you wouldn’t made yourself look like a fool.
    I will say this again. This story is dull. JK is dull. Do I have to find my comments from weeks ago saying this? Thanks for looking like a fool.

    Tmsmyz August 25, 2023 4:39 pm

    https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14224383/?page=1

    Here is where I am defending against the idea people thinks he is hot and ignores his toxicity. I tell them his hotness isn’t a factor and list some of his toxicities. However, it is obvious I don’t see him as hot even though I don’t say it. I wouldn’t defend against it like I did.
    I keep saying I find the story dull and I don’t find him hot.
    I just recently said I am not defending him and I don’t think he is hot. I have to remember the topic because is it is not on the first 15 pages. I am tried of looking. However, you guys seen these comments for a month.

    This just showed you two will go away of your way and make up bullshit to attack someone you hate over nothing but your own biases. How pathetic and immature. You had the choice to leave me alone and not reply to a topic that didn’t correspond to what was happening. Now, I think I am going to start defending JK for how foolish you two were being here. Nice to know you single me out too. Here I thought you guys love Tora more. Try reading this topic without biases and some lessons in English.

    Mikaela August 26, 2023 9:41 am

    Definitely! It's not gonna be a cute jealous reaction lmao.

    Thug_Nagisa August 27, 2023 5:37 am
    I think so too but maybe with Heesung now introduced, Dan could get into a relationship with him and Jaekyung could realize what he lost and make a total 180? Kinda like in BJ Alex. Asshole seme -> sweet and... spookyeggshell♡

    That would be an interesting twist but I don’t think Dan would even consider dating anyone tbh cause he’s always working and rarely even makes time for himself. I’m so ready for Jaekyung to have his Jiwon redemption arc but knowing this author, they’re gonna make us wait for it

    Thug_Nagisa August 27, 2023 5:46 am
    JK is ALREADY be showing jealousy. What story are you two reading?? But the wanting Dan to get with Heesung who appears to be love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative) and not wanting to be with JK, and t... Tmsmyz

    I honestly didn’t pick up any jealousy but I’m not really perceptive at that stuff I think I was waiting for it to be more obvious? And I don’t think we can really say just yet about Heesung’s character so idk about all that stuff but it does seem sus ngl. I said the last part was my prediction of what Jaekyung might say since that’s sort of within his character to just be an asshole

    Tmsmyz August 27, 2023 6:18 am
    I honestly didn’t pick up any jealousy but I’m not really perceptive at that stuff I think I was waiting for it to be more obvious? And I don’t think we can really say just yet about Heesung’s characte... Thug_Nagisa

    It may or may not be, it depends on how far Mingwa wants to take it.

    Heesung hold Dan’s hands at the chapter 30. Did you see his face??

    —“I hate flowers”. He was jealous then. He wasn’t just being a jerk. He was obviously upset by Dan’s observations.

    —Heesung asks Dan “I want to experience Doc Dan’s magic touch.”.
    JK “No, he’s already got his full with me”. As they walk away… he talks about the alarm to let Heesung know they live together.

    —He accepted the match with Heesung and the he tried to punch Heesung in the face when he was told not too. He also did the wrong thing in the tackle. He blocked it instead of absorbing it.

    —The look on his face at the end of chapter 31.

    There are different types of jealousy and people do express it differently.


    ——-
    I said. “ Heesung who appears to be love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative)”
    What did I said about Heesung’s character? I describe what a lover bomber is. I said Heesung who APPEARS to be.
    We can say he is suspicious and he is a love bomber. Dan is suffocating with it. The gifts are too expensive. Heesung is manipulative at the end. There is Potato’s warning. (Narcissist, abuser, manipulative- is from research on love bombers.).

    You guys need to start carefully reading comments.
    A who appears to be B (describing B). Isn’t describing A not unless A is B. B is from research.

    ———.
    That is your pov. I don’t think the story has that pov. I hope you are wrong because that doesn’t seem to be JK I see.

    spookyeggshell♡ August 27, 2023 1:12 pm
    That would be an interesting twist but I don’t think Dan would even consider dating anyone tbh cause he’s always working and rarely even makes time for himself. I’m so ready for Jaekyung to have his Jiwon... Thug_Nagisa

    Oh 100%. I can’t see how Jaekyung would be redeemed but tbf I also couldn’t see how Jiwon could be redeemed during my 1st read-through of bj alex ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    spookyeggshell♡ August 27, 2023 1:14 pm
    It may or may not be, it depends on how far Mingwa wants to take it. Heesung hold Dan’s hands at the chapter 30. Did you see his face??—“I hate flowers”. He was jealous then. He wasn’t just being a j... Tmsmyz

    Ok dude, it’s not that serious. Why are we writing full on paragraphs?? So what if we’re “being foolish”, as you say? It’s a manga, take a breather and chill

    Tmsmyz August 27, 2023 1:24 pm
    Ok dude, it’s not that serious. Why are we writing full on paragraphs?? So what if we’re “being foolish”, as you say? It’s a manga, take a breather and chill spookyeggshell♡

    Dude, you can write sentences or paragraphs and not be too serious. It is calling a conversation. Try it sometime and stop blocking real conversation on here with your gaslighting. Some people are writers and others are not. What you did was wrong. “Take a breather and chill” is very controlling and unnecessary. Nothing in my comments suggest your false interpretation. I shared information, and you are telling me to chill. Hahahaha. Please stop the manipulative gaslighting behavior.

    Thug_Nagisa August 29, 2023 9:08 am
    Oh 100%. I can’t see how Jaekyung would be redeemed but tbf I also couldn’t see how Jiwon could be redeemed during my 1st read-through of bj alex ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ spookyeggshell♡

    Yeaaa it was pretty insane the way the author really made him do a 180 and everyone just accepted it and I do believe people can change and he did make up for it so idk maybe? But also at this point Jaekyung will need to do some SERIOUS apologizing before anyone even considers forgiving him and idk how you can come back from what he’s done so far but i guess we’ll have to wait and see. I also wanna know his reason on why he’s such a jerk

    Thug_Nagisa August 29, 2023 9:12 am
    Dude, you can write sentences or paragraphs and not be too serious. It is calling a conversation. Try it sometime and stop blocking real conversation on here with your gaslighting. Some people are writers and o... Tmsmyz

    I mean i do agree with them and I think you’re taking this a bit too far and overthinking a lot. We all have different interpretations of the story and I think you’re going about it too aggressively. We’re all enjoying discussing the mangwhua together and there’s no need to accuse anybody of anything or be rude when we’re just trying to throw around theories respectively

    Tmsmyz August 29, 2023 10:01 am
    I mean i do agree with them and I think you’re taking this a bit too far and overthinking a lot. We all have different interpretations of the story and I think you’re going about it too aggressively. We’r... Thug_Nagisa

    That is not describing my comments. You are taking it too far. I was pointing out details about the story and was meet with aggressiveness and gaslighting.

    If you think I taking this too far, overthinking, been aggressive, accusing other people, or being rude — seek professional help
    You are not just throwing around theories respectfully. You are standing with someone who is as rude to me and out of line. You are standing with cyber bullies/stalkers.

    Bivhh and Mikaela are cyber bullies/stalkers per their own behavior and comments for a month now. It is not an accusation. It was a warning not being aggressive. If you stand with them, then you are a cyber bully too.

    Tmsmyz August 29, 2023 10:06 am
    JK is ALREADY be showing jealousy. What story are you two reading?? But the wanting Dan to get with Heesung who appears to be love bomber (narcissist, abuser, manipulative) and not wanting to be with JK, and t... Tmsmyz

    There is no rudeness or aggressiveness here. If you read it that way that is your fault.
    How did that random “be” get into the first sentence? Lol.
    It was not rude. It was not aggressive. It was not dead serious. Stop.

    Tmsmyz August 29, 2023 10:12 am
    @Tmsmyz youre the one clearly being biased here, you state all Heesungs issues but are literally saying nothing about Jaekyung in that statement. You do realise that Jaekyung is the worse option here, choosing ... toilet terrorist

    This is not for you Toilet.

    Thug - We already know JK behavior and the main point about a new character we barely knew. Why are you not giving him the same lecture? He overthought my reply. He accused me and was rude. I stated nothing about Heesung’s issues. If I did, I didn’t have to reiterate JK’s. Why are you only singling me out?? If my reply was read properly I am not biased.